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To enjoy being in hospital?

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startingtolooklikemother · 03/09/2016 20:58

I fell slipped and fell over on the worlds smallest hill on Friday and managed to dislocate my foot as well as breaking my ankle in 3 places
Thing is I'm actually enjoying being in hospital even though I thought it was going to be awful. The food isn't bad, I can't walk so someone brings me loads of cups of tea, changed my bed, plumps my pillows and generally feels sorry for me. yesterday I spent all day in bed eating Jaffa cakes watching day time to and slightly off my face on morphine
I know it's not exactly where I would choose for a mini break but compared to home life its a doddle
Of course I miss my DS and DH but god it's lovely having everyone run round after me.

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rosesarered9 · 06/09/2016 17:39

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rosesarered9 · 06/09/2016 17:39

OMG WRONG THREAD

ZebraOwl · 06/09/2016 23:35

Stratters
I count myself very lucky - & these days quite unusual that despite the fact those of my family who don't die young rumble on to a good age, I've not had a family member have any form of dementia. I'm so sorry about your MIL - I think the various forms of dementia are actively cruel (as much as a disease can be): they cause so much suffering, to the person with it & to everyone who cares for/about them. I can't even begin to imagine how painful it would be to have a spouse/sibling/parent stop recognising you & perhaps become hostile towards you. Of course, with plenty of time in hospital I've seen & heard a lot of the fear & confusion of the various stages - I once had a post-anaphylaxis night on a medical admissions Unit where an elderly gentleman, on recalling his date of birth (which had eluded him on admission) spent the whole time reciting it to make sure he didn't forget. To be fair, he worked in his full name & place of birth birth & parents' & siblings' names too. It was like really bad performance art. Except springing from a palpable fear that it wasn't a momentary slip brought on by being ill & tired & rather disoriented. Unf.

On a lighter note, I feel we should hi-5 for the montelukast purely because I don't know many other people who take it. Between that, the crosswords, the polyglottishness & having to reverse exercises in ballet class (which I very absolutely am NOT going to have to stop doing soon, my body is going to buck its ideas up instead, I'm 2 years past wheelchair!deadline & still dancing so it can just keep going... I might negotiate on the pointe shoes... maybe... but I've got some new Gaynor Mindens & those things are almost £90 a pair, so it's not off the hook yet...)

Ovaries
I think "Morbid But Comforting" about sums it up. I want to outlive my cats (indoor moglets, age 4.5y) & try to make sure my Brownie Unit won't have to close in the event of my death, but I count myself very lucky not to have to worry about Not Getting To See My Children Grow Up. My mother died when I was 10 & tbh I worry enough about what my death will do to my younger sister. If I were in your position is struggle with it far more than I do mine I'm sure.

Starting
It looks a bit like they stole the last of your Jaffa cakes & then WASTED them by just rubbing the jammy bit all over your knee there...
More seriously, I'm sorry you're in pain - and while you're getting bored now, please make sure they don't discharge you unless you have a good pain management plan in place. While you're still on the ward make sure you know which painkillers you're prescribed & when you can have them - and ask for them when they're due, whether or not you think you need them. If you wait until you're in pain to take painkillers you will really struggle to manage the pain. Also, paracetamol is (unless you are allergic, obviously!) your friend. It is a wonderful drug. It is a very potent drug, though it is often overlooked & dismissed. You DO have to be very careful with the dosing, but it is a Marvellous Thing. If the pain is really unbearable (so you're crying/vomiting/involuntarily curling into a ball/blacking out/it's making your breathing go funny) even at this hour it's ok to ask them to try to get someone to write you up for stronger medication - if you've got a morphine pump set up already they might be able to bump the background or up the amount that comes with each each click of the PCA button. It might be worth trying to ice as close to it as you can bear to touch as well...
Hope you feel better soon. If it's any consolation, at least when you mobilise, I bet you get crutches. Because of my disability they make me use a Zimmer frame. Bearing in mind I'm frequently mistaken for a teenager still, am sure you can imagine how that looks (to say nothing of how I felt, first time it happened when I was in my 20s...)

OnceThere
It sounds like you had a very difficult time on the psych ward (I'm assuming you were sectioned if you were there for 3 days & it was instigated by someone else) & that while it kept you safe - which presumably was what your friend - & the HCPs responsible for section - were worried about - it didn't have any therapeutic value or make you FEEL very safe. Take care.

OnceThereWasThisGirlWho · 07/09/2016 14:47

Zebra Hmm hopefully you won't have to compromise too much on the pointe shoes - even barre exercises en pointe and you've "done it" as it were... wising you all the best. Flowers

I wasn't actually sectioned; I was in the grey area where you are technically a "voluntary" patient but under threat of section if you don't comply. However, I wasn't "kept safe" really as the most risky bit was when I realised I wasn't going to get any help and was discharged from not only the hospital but all mental health services. I definitely was not the most suicidal I have ever been, and also had been assessed numerous times and sent on my way when in a much worse state. I think they misinterpreted my calmness as ominous rather than "not actually that ill atm". That's what I mean about judgements of someone - in my personal experience, as well as observing what's happened to others, these judgements don't seem to be based on the truth but on internal prejudices. Some people get away with all sorts with everyone fluttering round trying to help, whilst others are judged for the tiniest and generally misinterpreted thing.

GColdtimer · 07/09/2016 23:36

Liz they probably had to wait for the swelling to go down before they could operate.

Silversun83 · 09/09/2016 17:59

I was in hospital for four days earlier this year after an EMCS and I really didn't want to go home and have to worry about coping with every day life and looking after a newborn! I loved being looked after and having my meals brought to me!

Shameandregret · 09/09/2016 18:11

Haha this thread has made me Smile.

I work on Labour/Postnatal wards and I am always saying to patients 'I bet you can't wait to go home', mum's with two or less DC's always say 'I can't wait' whereas any mum with 3+ DC's looks horrified when I suggest it Grin.

SeamstressfromTreacleMineRoad · 09/09/2016 19:10

Ooooh - the memories. I broke my ankle 10 years ago, and was plastered up and sent home (I lived alone - but luckily I had wonderful friends who came and fetched me, then let me stay for a couple of days until I had my 'proper' cast on).
May I recommend a large stainless steel flask - with a carrying strap - as I invested in one, and it enabled me to make hot drinks and then carry them back into the other room Grin. The other indispensable item was a 'grabber' that a friend bought for me -- believe me, you don't want to keep moving around whenever you drop something on the floor..!
I have crap balance, and after the first (terrifying!) night with crutches, I told them that I'd be back in with the other leg broken if I kept them, and traded them in for a zimmer frame Shock which allowed me to keep mobile - I also attached a string bag to it, so that I could carry things Smile
As pp have said, keep your foot elevated as much as possible - and don't be tempted to even try to weight-bear until you're told to by your doctor. Good luck..!! Flowers

MrsLion · 09/09/2016 19:24

This thread is hilarious. I have been in hospital 4 times. 3 for sections and once for a minor surgery.
Loved it!
Thought I was the only one. I also fantasies about a non-serious illness that requires a 2-3 night stay. I've never admitted this before now! Smile

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