AIBU in my attitude

[Ihatewankers]

Heavenly pregnant and he should have been working from home whilst waiting for a workman. I get home and he had clearly been on his side of the bed with tissues. I have comfronted him and he says he felt H...

I asked him why he didn't ask me to come home, he says he didn't think of it. It's the first time I have caught him, he insists he is not using porn or having an affair. I feel a man over 35 should be satisfied with being with his partner and ask for more if he is not getting enough. Not skiving and wanking himself.

AIBU?

If you don't masturbate it might be difficult to disconnect it with sex but as someone who does do it it might reassure you to know that I and therefore maybe others, don't do it as a substitute for sex, it's just something nice I do....I think the comparison to chocolate is a good one! Sometimes I think of sexual things others I think of really mundane stuff....I do it because I enjoy the feeling and it's good stress relief. It satisfies a different need than sex does. I couldn't substitute one with the other.
I didn't even discover it in a sexual way...I was a teenager, discovered it as I'd read a magazine article about it and wanted to try it out of curiosity.

As a side point, if people haven't tried it, you sure should....it's pretty bloody amazing.

My dh lie in day is Saturday and while I'm occupying ds he has a fab wank or two, and when it's my lie in day on Sunday I crack one out with joy in my heart and then go yo church ( Catholic )

A reverse? Na i reckon its complete bullshit

Totally and utterly.

Not long till the schools go back, thankfully

Thank you everyone, I shall try and be more open minded. You have helped me.

That attitude towards the activity seems at odds with the rather frank username.

YABVVU.

That attitude towards the activity seems at odds with the rather frank username

I thought that too. Odd that someone so puritanically opposed to onanism would choose to join a widely-read Internet forum specifically in order to discuss it in such profane terms

Not long till the schools go back, thankfully

Bloody teachers, trolling us mercilessly they are.

Grow up and maybe try it yourself! Don't use sex to control. Be nice.