To wish I'd had c-sections?

[restofthetimes]

My two best friends have both split up with the fathers of their children, and have met new partners - one serious, and other having fun.

They both mentioned how pleased they are they had sections for their children, as their vayjays are still unscathed. (They didn't choose them at the time, had emergencies, then planned for second babies). Now this isn't something you'd discuss with a new nct or school gate type friend. But these girls I've known since I was 7.

I'm quite unhappy with DH - not so bothered, but partly I do think I'd have more confidence with a new partner if there weren't changes (probably discernible only to me) down there.

Has anyone else ever thought of this? It is horribly unfeminist of me?

[poshme]

Me too island!

[corythatwas]

When I sought the advice of my GP for dd's failure to thrive, she gave me a physical examination and told me that my first priority should be to get my vagina restitched as "the best present you can give your little girl is a father". Meaning that any husband would be bound to up and leave a woman who looked like I did below.

Now that is a very sad indictment of today's society. And dh and I are still together 20 years later. Though I have by now also acquired the caesarean scar and the overhang.

[ThePhantomKnickerSniffer]

corey that's disgusting of your gp :(