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42 is fucking old isn't it?

204 replies

StillSmallVoiceOfCalm · 20/08/2016 21:30

Wrinkled. Old. Saggy.

Fucking hell.

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skankingpiglet · 20/08/2016 22:04

Shit, don't tell DH that. He's 44 and still very much considers himself part of the Yoot...

RandomDent · 20/08/2016 22:04

Get yourself a cup of something that is almost, but not quite, exactly unlike tea.

NavyandWhite · 20/08/2016 22:05

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KC225 · 20/08/2016 22:05

I got married at 41and had twins at 42. Didn't feel old. Felt like a new beginning

pollyglot · 20/08/2016 22:05

The 40s are good. The 50s are ....great! I mean, fucking fantastic! Life keeps on getting better and better with age, believe me. Sex especially. I mean..wow and wow. Keep the faith. You'll find out one day.

StillSmallVoiceOfCalm · 20/08/2016 22:05

Brain the size of a planet.

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hidingwithwine · 20/08/2016 22:05

Fuck I'm 46 next month and I don't think I'm old although I'm very aware I'm no longer in my 20's physical wreck

However I'm also aware that I won't go back to my 20's or 30's for anything.. I like me in my 40's

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 20/08/2016 22:07

I'm 48 and am rock!

Older, fitter and look pretty good imo!

I feel much younger despite loving an early night, sleep is very important.

IamtheZombie · 20/08/2016 22:08

Zombie is 64 and she's still trying to decide what she wants to be when she grows up. Or maybe she's in her second childhood.

LetUsPrey · 20/08/2016 22:11

I am 46 today and feeling FUCKING FABULOUS!

brasty · 20/08/2016 22:11

If you consider that middle aged is in the middle of your life, it is middle aged. Old though? That is subjective. Especially as so many people seem to think being old means you can't be fit, have sex or look good.

NorksAreMessy · 20/08/2016 22:11

Have a pan-galactic gargle blaster and tomorrow will be FAB :)

Ivydalegirl · 20/08/2016 22:12

I would give my eye teeth to be only 42. Wait until you are 60, it's bloody awful!

user7755 · 20/08/2016 22:13

What sunnydayinmay said.

My Forties have been the best years so far. I'm comfortable in my own skin, mostly loved up with husband and kids (even though they get on my nerves sometimes), job is grand and enough to keep me busy for a few years. And mainly I've stopped giving a shit what other people think of me.

LetUsPrey · 20/08/2016 22:15

I suspect tomorrow morning may feel post-Pan Galactic Gargle Blaster

Oysterbabe · 20/08/2016 22:16

I dread my 40s and beyond. I mean I'm only 35 and I'm pretty fucking tired already.

KERALA1 · 20/08/2016 22:17

Just enjoy life if you can - getting older is better than the alternative. Lost a friend last week to cancer she was 42 as am I.

NavyandWhite · 20/08/2016 22:18

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Morsecode · 20/08/2016 22:18

I am sick of my 30s and am glad I'll be 40 this year. Not old, not even middle aged. 40s might have been middle aged a decade or two ago but not anymore.

shaggedthruahedgebackwards · 20/08/2016 22:19

I am only 41 so can't possibly comment

RaspberryOverload · 20/08/2016 22:21

I'm 47 and I'm enjoying myself so far. I even went to my first Download festival this year, alone, and had a whale of a time. Still have items on my to-do list so not decrepit yet.Grin

Scottishthreeberry16 · 20/08/2016 22:22

Oh, get real. My 80 yr old mother goes dancing every weekend. She sent me a pic recently of herself in the Carribean. In a bikini. Looking fab. The day after she was going snorkelling. Seriously, age is a state of mind

Blu · 20/08/2016 22:24

Really, really, fucking ancient.

However, since the dawn of such decrepitude I have managed to do all sorts: have a baby, walk up some massive mountains, get a significant award, take up a new outdoor hobby, etc. so all is not lost.

Hope you survive and enjoy the odd laugh along the way.

frogmore · 20/08/2016 22:24

A child died today- swept away - at 6 years old- and you're mourning about turning 42? are you for real? Shock

PerpendicularVincent · 20/08/2016 22:24

No it isn't. Fuck off Grin

I'm a similar age and am a hot MILF and not at all deluded .