StrawberryMummy where is this available therapy? That's part of the issue that the OP has raised and that others have referred to - that access to the right type of therapy for those who have paedophiliac thoughts but don't want to act on them is near-impossible, either because it simply doesn't exist or because as soon as someone opens their mouth to say "I don't want to think like this, help me" the flaming torches are lit and the pitchforks sharpened.
Difficult conversations need to be had before that changes, so that more children can be helped by helping those trying not to harm them.
And before anyone tries to get their competitive outrage on, I spent ten years prosecuting criminals including sex offenders, including child molesters, so I have empathy for the victims of those who did act on their impulses coming out of my ears, having seen at first hand the damage they can do.
That doesn't mean I can't spare a little bit of empathy for those who don't want to end up as abusers but who find it impossible to get any kind of practical support in helping them overcome or suppress their urges in a society peopled almost exclusively with people who would chop their balls off if given half a chance. It must be a horrible way to live, loathing being inside your own head.