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Playboy model publicly body shames woman at gym.

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HelenaDove · 16/07/2016 18:54

www.huffingtonpost.ca/2016/07/15/dani-mathers-body-shaming_n_11015320.html

Unbelievable. What she did was fucking disgusting. And the lame apology about how it was accidentally posted. Yeah Course it was Hmm Thats why she wrote the caption to go with it.

Yesterday i actually had someone poke me in the stomach and ask me why something hasnt been done about the loose skin ive been left with after weight loss.

But what Dani Mathers has done is downright nasty and IMO she should be charged at least with violation of privacy.

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Littlepeople12345 · 16/07/2016 19:51

She's a cunt, body shaming is a shit thing to do.

kali110 · 16/07/2016 19:54

Disgrace

kali110 · 16/07/2016 19:55

Though she's already lost a few things for her bit of fun.

IHateDoors · 16/07/2016 19:56

It's awful what she did. Just awful. The pathetic lie of an apology just makes me seethe.

Idontknowwhoiam · 16/07/2016 19:57

I'm sure I read earlier she's facing charges!
The police report names jane doe as the victim but I'm glad they're doing something about it.
I hope the poor woman who was the target never finds out it was her!

MOB247 · 16/07/2016 19:58

I agree - I don't know how she thought that was a good idea! Now that poor woman has her naked pic over news sites especially DM! AngryAngry hope she is ok because she really is the victim in all of this!!

IWouldLikeToSeeTheseMangoes · 16/07/2016 19:58

Agreed - saw this earlier such a horrendous thing to do to someone on so many levels. What a nasty bitch!

And well done on your weight loss Flowers Cant believe how beyond rude some people are it's probably jealousy ignore them! And be glad you're not them it'll be a lot harder to lose a spiteful personality Smile

WorraLiberty · 16/07/2016 20:00

There was a thread about this the other day in Chat I think.

YANBU.

McPie · 16/07/2016 20:01

Just horrible and beyond words! Hopefully that's her going to be short on job opportunities after that. Humiliation at it's worst, poor woman deserves an honest apology from this nasty piece of work!

mathanxiety · 16/07/2016 20:02

I hope they charge her with voyeurism or something that will land her on the sex offender list.

Nasty bitch doesn't even come close to what she did.

I also hope the women whose naked body was exposed to the entire world and will be available for viewing for ever more will sue her for her last penny and then some more.

gettingtherequickly · 16/07/2016 20:02

What an awful thing to do, even if she did think she was just sharing it with a friend.

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HelenaDove · 16/07/2016 20:05

Thanks mangoes Thanks its now made me wonder if i should have a tummy tuck but i cant afford to go private.

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mzS1990 · 16/07/2016 20:06

It's horrible. And also weird to take a pic of someone naked. She's a pervert

Sooverthis · 16/07/2016 20:13

I started the thread in chat I am still shocked and saddened that anyone yet alone a fellow woman could think this was in any way acceptable. I wonder/hope if the charges might include something that will affect Dani for life; that poor other woman will have an abusive naked photo on the web for ever thank to her.

IWouldLikeToSeeTheseMangoes · 16/07/2016 20:18

Not at all Helena I'm sure there's no way you need surgery! Please don't feel you have to go down that drastic a route because of some twat's comments. Really annoys me when people say stuff like that and don't even consider how much it could get to someone. Bet you look fab don't give it another thought.

mathanxiety · 16/07/2016 20:22

How could she think it was ok to 'just share this with a friend'?

Woman takes shower at the gym. What is shareable about this?

More to the point, why would she take a photo of a woman naked in the showers in the first place?

In what parallel universe is it ok to take a photo of someone else, naked, without their permission?

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HelenaDove · 16/07/2016 20:29

Exactly math. Its still wouldnt be ok even if it wasnt on Snapchat Its still a violation of privacy, still bullying and body shaming.

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MetalMidget · 16/07/2016 20:31

She's been banned from all LA Fitness gyms, fired from her radio show and had her details passed onto the police by the gym. Hopefully the evil cow will get sued to kingdom come and end up with a record.

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HelenaDove · 16/07/2016 20:33

Thankyou Mangoes. She was in front of me in the checkout queue and when she left the checkout girl asked if she was my mum.

Smile
Shes only a year older than i am

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HelenaDove · 16/07/2016 20:35

I didnt realise there was a thread in Chat. I didnt look there properly though.........just scanned the board.

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magicaltoaster · 16/07/2016 20:35

I've been laughed at for going to the gym being a bit out of shape (perfectly healthy BMI and weight range i might add- just post children), in my younger days it would have haunted me due to my former annorexia, but honestly now I know who's opinions I value within society, and who's don't matter. Having a decent personality, being kind, patient, interested in others and remaining entertained and fascinated by life, are by far the most attractive qualities in other human beings in my opinion. Live and let live.

Gileswithachainsaw · 16/07/2016 20:36

What a disgusting tbing to do. glad the gym appear to be taking it seriously.

to the woman in the photo. .. please don't let one bitch put you off. please enjoy going back. don't let this stop you.

IWouldLikeToSeeTheseMangoes · 16/07/2016 20:46

There you go then Helena Grin That's the proof that an ugly personality has aged her!! Karma!

And well said Magical - people who have all those lovely qualities are so much more attractive for it. And vice versa.

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HelenaDove · 16/07/2016 20:50

magical i think thats great. And you have beaten an eating disorder which is bloody hard Thanks

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CaptainBrickbeard · 16/07/2016 20:51

The photo of the woman was so unremarkable as well - how warped a view must Dani Mathers have of the female form to find that person's body so shocking? It is an act of catastrophic stupidity, narcissism, malice and egotism. I can believe that she intended it for a select, private audience rather than meaning to post it publicly but what how colossally idiotic must she be to photograph someone naked without their knowledge or consent? I really hope she gets into significant trouble for this, she must not get away with it.