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To tell you all DD2 is 2 today and I got her there all by myself after being widowed when pregnant.

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grobagsforever · 14/07/2016 06:35

DH died when I was 36 weeks pregnant. DD2 is two today! (DD1 nearly 6). Since she was born I've got back to work nearly full time, learned to drive and done the London marathon in aid of CRUK. My daughters are happy and healthy and have the most amazing bond. I've made a ton of mistakes but right now I just want to be proud.

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youshouldcancelthecheque · 14/07/2016 10:25

I followed your story and still think of you, a HUGE congratulations on your achievement and Happy Birthday to your 2 year old!

knackeredfarmingmummy · 14/07/2016 10:33

runs up...jumps...gives big cheesy high 5, whilst opening bottle of prosecco and passing you a straw.

MintJulip · 14/07/2016 10:36

Op amazing grief, what a strange state to be in and have to go through. Incredible you have come though it all and with two lovely DD's. Flowers

ARichVernacular · 14/07/2016 10:36

I remember your thread well, the pain and confusion was so vivid. How wonderful to hear that you and your lovely girls are thriving :) Happy birthday minibags and happy superwoman day to you grobags, may life bring you all nothing but joy.

MamaBear98 · 14/07/2016 10:44

Well done 👏🏼 That is some amount of achievements in such a short length of time,let alone if you were bereaved-I hope ye all have a great day 😊

grannytomine · 14/07/2016 10:51

I actually feel a bit tearful reading your story, I think you are absolutely amazing and I hope every one you know tells you that you are. Your children are lucky to have such a brave, strong mother. You are a wonderful role model for them.

PerfectlyPosed · 14/07/2016 10:52

I remember your threads. So pleased to hear you're doing well. I am local to you and think about you often and wonder how you're doing. Wishing your lovely little girl a very happy 2nd birthday Cake

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 14/07/2016 10:53

wipes eye, sniffs...

well done OP Flowers

ParadiseCity · 14/07/2016 10:53

Happy Birthday to your DD! Well done and keep on being amazing Star

Zuccarelli · 14/07/2016 10:59

You sound amazing and so strong. Your children are so lucky to have you. Flowers for you and Cake for your dd

Donatellalymanmoss · 14/07/2016 11:02

Happy Birthday to your DD Cake and well done to you.

I remember your threads and have hoped that you're doing ok. I'm sure it hasn't been easy but it's lovely to read this update Flowers

WordGetsAround · 14/07/2016 11:03

Wow - you are amazing. I hope you get some space today to just sit back and take it all in. Your DC must be so proud of you - and as they grow up they will be even more so. Have a wonderful day!

Adarajames · 14/07/2016 11:23

Huge well done, rightly celebrate your strength Flowers

Happy Birthday to your wee one, and happy birthing day to you WineCake

Bungathebrave · 14/07/2016 11:29

You have a right to feel proud of yourself you have to shown such strength under life changing circumstances.

Happy birthday to your DD
Plenty of cake all around

tiddlyipom · 14/07/2016 11:32

Hi Grobags, I remember your posts too.
You are an absolutely fabulous woman Flowers, such strength and bravery.
A very Happy Birthday to your little girl.

toolonglurking · 14/07/2016 11:45

You should be very proud, you sound like a lovely family and a great mum Flowers

RumbleMum · 14/07/2016 11:53

I remember your thread too. You have done, and are doing, an amazing job. Sounds like the DC are doing well. How about you?

anahata · 14/07/2016 12:15

Happy birthday little one. You have every single right to be proud. I'm in absolute awe of you xx

kw1091 · 14/07/2016 17:09

Put a tear in my eye!
Go you! you are amazing and your husband would be so proud xxxx

teatowel · 14/07/2016 18:08

I remember your thread well especially as I thought my daughter was in the same ward as your husband at the same time. I am so glad you are doing well.

lessthanBeau · 14/07/2016 18:16

Happy birthday dd2, you're bloody amazing! You have every right to be proud!

Anonymouses · 14/07/2016 18:17

You are very rightly proud. Flowers

Wonkydonkey44 · 14/07/2016 18:18

What a wonderful post , xxx

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SeamstressfromTreacleMineRoad · 14/07/2016 18:33

So pleased to read this. I remember crying when I read your original thread (2 years..? Really..? It can't be..!!!) and I'm thrilled to be able to say Star Happy Birthday Star to Minibags - and Bloody Well Done to you Flowers