People have come out will all kind of bollocks about not only Cologne, but all kinds of sexual assaults and murders of women and girls.
And women do sit there and calmly refute those points on TV shows.
That happens to rape victims and to the families of murder victims.
This whole thing of people storming off and so on doesn't mean they're more upset than a person who calmly tries to challenge the opinions of others.
I understand that it occurs in a wider context of homophobia, but ISIS related mass killings are also happening in a wider context. The murders in the Jewish supermarket in Paris have been discussed in a wider context of attacks on the West, not just Anti-Semitism or connected to Hebdo.
Generally people don't just know women, or Middle Eastern ancestry Christians, or Jewish people or gay people. Living in a diverse society means that we're concerned about all the people we know and care about.
It can be about homophobia and about a threat to people from fundamentalism at the same time.