Thing is, whilst it's a free choice, it's not always treated as such:
I went to see nurse for repeat prescription of pill, about 4-5 years ago. She asked if my smear was up to date, I said no. She seemed surprised, and therefore I briefly said that I've looked in to it and believe that a) 25 is too young, and b) I don't believe the positives necessarily outweigh the negatives. She then responded (and I quote): "I don't want to lecture you, but..." and proceeded to lecture me. I was a bit
. It may be optional but it sure as fuck didn't feel like it. She talked to me like I was a silly little girl.
My request to be removed from the mailing list was conveniently lost twice, so I highly doubt that was coincidental.
About 2 years ago I decided to get the copper coil. Mid sesh the nurse asks the usual smear question, I say no, she says she'll do it whilst I'm up there. I say no, I don't want one, and don't worry, it's an informed decision. She just made sure that I was sure and dropped the subject (she is a fab nurse!).
I since had unexplained bleeding, and that for me was the moment to have it done (I was 30 by then). Not because of a quota, not because I'm being forced/convinced to have one, just because my body told me something was a bit out of sync. It came back clear
I will probably leave it now until my body tells me something isn't quite right.
Those of you who choose to have it done regularly: Good. As long as it's your decision and you are happy with it. If you don't have it done, make sure it's because of medical facts and not fear/embarrassment. Look up medical facts re smears and follow up procedures, and base your decision on those.
Then we can all avoid the bunfight.