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So I've just found out something I shouldn't have...

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WanderingNotLost · 01/06/2016 23:34

Completely by accident... DP was in the bathroom getting ready for bed, he'd left his phone in the bedroom with the radio on. A song came on that I really hate by Ellie Goulding so I opened his phone to switch stations, and it opened on a whatsapp chat he was having with my best friend, where he'd sent her photos of the engagement ring he's just bought.

I feel so bad that I know this! And to make matters worse I had to keep the radio on the same bloody song so he wouldn't know I'd seen!

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AmberNectarine · 08/06/2016 08:20

Congratulations OP, what a lovely story - and a nice change for someone to find something good on their OH's phone!

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BBQsAreSooooOverrated · 08/06/2016 08:27

Congratulations! Beautiful ring.

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HoldtheDoor · 08/06/2016 08:29

Congratulations! My mum had that exact Ellie Goulding song walking down the aisle. Just thinking about it makes me want to cry and I don't like her songs either.

Your ring is beautiful and I also love your mug.

I did something similar with my DP that he'd left his phone on the bed and I checked the time and he'd had a message from his mum saying "what about this one? With a picture of a ring underneath. Blush
I felt really bad. To be fair he ended up proposing about 3 days later, I was expecting it to be longer than that but think he wanted to get it out of the way. He was being a right odd bugger for about a week and I thought he wanted to leave me, turns out it was just nerves Grin been engaged just over a year now.

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scarednoob · 08/06/2016 08:32

that ring is beautiful! congratulations, wishing you a lifetime of happiness with it (and him Wink).

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cornishglos · 08/06/2016 08:33

Love that ring. Congratulations.

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Collieohmy · 08/06/2016 08:41

OP, I had to re read your original post BECAUSE I read it as you accidentally seeing a message to your best friend, with a picture of an engagement ring he'd bought for her. I was going to tell you to switch the song to something Beyoncé and pack his bags Grin

Congratulations!

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Scoose · 08/06/2016 08:52

Congratulations how lovely! Flowers

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blue2014 · 08/06/2016 09:06

Yaaaayyy!!! Congratulations - beautiful ring and very cool mug

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blindsider · 08/06/2016 09:22

I don't know what the big thing is about making a big drama over PTQ, I got engaged in the Jacuzzi 10 days after our first date during a discussion about whether I was a risk taker. Still together 5 years later and blissfully happy.

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CauliflowerBalti · 08/06/2016 09:26

GORGEOUS ring. Fabulous mug.

Congratulations!

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WingDefence · 08/06/2016 09:28

Stunning ring - congrats! Flowers

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LordoftheTits · 08/06/2016 09:29

That ring is stunning and exactly what I would have picked if we'd bought mine together - I'm a bit jealous! Congratulations!

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CocklesandMussels · 08/06/2016 09:31

I'm a big lurker, I rarely post, but I must say that ring is fabulous. I must also tell you to please listen to the original (preferably acoustic) version of 'how long will I love you' by The Waterboys. You'll find it on YouTube. It is a thing of beauty. Congratulations again!

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ChoccyJules · 08/06/2016 09:33

Huge Congrats! WineFlowersCake

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barbecue · 08/06/2016 09:33

Congratulations! Grin

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durezz · 08/06/2016 09:37

So sweet! Congrats!
Just one question, if you are free enough to look at his phone, is he free enough to see this thread perhaps? You don't want him to find out you already knew, that would be awkward! Or if there's no way he can find out then great! Good luck to both of you and may you have many happy years in the future!!

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The80sweregreat · 08/06/2016 09:37

That's nice though, congratulations and trust Ellie Goulding to mess it up for you! ( pictures of her with Prince Harry in the tabloids, just nooo!)
i hope your happy and practice that poker face (and keep him off this site.)

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curlingandtwirling · 08/06/2016 09:40

Congratulations! It's a beautiful ring, he's done well!

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PartiallyStars · 08/06/2016 09:42

I love that song, but in the original Waterboys version. Listen to that, it's much better - in fact why not have it as your first dance? Grin

And congratulations!

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Vertigo58 · 08/06/2016 09:50

Awwwwwww Grin

Congratulations!!

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FankEweVeryMuch · 08/06/2016 09:51

That's a beautiful ring, congratulations!

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chilledmonday · 08/06/2016 09:54

Lovely news! Congrats. OP you KNOW that that song has to be your wedding dance song now don't you Wink

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amigoingabitcrazy · 08/06/2016 10:08

The ring is bloody gorgeous and so is that mug Grin congratulations to you both! Flowers

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NotSure202 · 08/06/2016 10:16

GORGEOUS ring!!!!!

My DH proposed to me after we had both had food poisoning for a few days. I was white, sweaty, shivery and shaky and we were both in our dressing gowns trying to keep tea down. Not romantic! (But perfect!).

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CrazyDuchess · 08/06/2016 10:31

Massive Massive congratulations - the ring is gorgeous!

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