If you have 7 kids to look after, do you take the risk of getting pregnant again if you are likely to have a VERY high risk pregnancy?
That's the bit I think people are struggling to get past. The lack of responsibility for those children at that point or even considering 'what if I do die'. Having another child is one probably one of the most risky things in life she could have done to her body after that many CS. Perhaps she did not have this stressed enough to her, and that's a failing of HCPs. From the comments she made in the story, it does seem like she didn't think of possible problems and was rather blaisé about the whole thing.
I feel for her, but I still find it hard to get past, why you would put the potential future of your whole family at that much risk. It was a conscious decision to carry on having children.
I think that's probably the reason people have been harsh about her.
This is also the reason the Mail ran the story.
They are not interested in 'Woman receives poor post-natal care'. They want outrage at her having 8 CS.
Otherwise they could probably run a story every couple of weeks about someone having extremely poor post natal care.
No one is interested in the story of thousands of women having shocking care. They can't blame the women for it. It won't sell advertising space.