We have got TWO fucking bathrooms!

[TheWizardOfOs]

Main bathroom is used by me and DDs. En-suite mainly by H. Not exclusively. There is no law or family rule banning anyone from using any of the bathrooms.

We have TWO bathrooms. TWO.

So why in the name of all that is sane, reasonable, holy, unholy and right, does fucking stupid H just barge in to the fucking bedroom to use the en-suite one when I am in bed? Whether I am asleep or not.

WHY? Why would you do that?

He works stupid hours so is in bed at 8 on week nights. Perhaps I'll start banging in to the fucking bedroom loudly at 9 and use the fucking SECOND bathroom. Even if the first one isn't being used. Just because I can. And I am a stupid, thoughtless, uncaring, loud fucker.

Set the alarm for 2.00 am tonight, then watch GOT - in bed, with the volume up.

Goodness me, you've attracted some utter twats on this thread OP! YANBU and your H is being a knob.

Grown man asked not to do something by DW because it bothers and disturbs her.

Grown man continues to do the thing that bothers DW (repeatedly).

Grown man is an inconsiderate fucktard cunt. (Who the fuck doesn't get that???!!!!)

DW gives grown man a taste of his own medicine.

Grown man likely temporarily sulks but gets the message.

Grown man and DW live happily ever after.

The End.

And this OP, is why I opted against fitting an ensuite in our large bedroom (older house), and opted for a downstairs shower room, because who wants to be woken up by their partner banging about early morning or last thing at night.

For the love of god can we not use fucktard.

Please.

How did you sleep OP?

Off with his head I have enjoyed this very much

I have no idea how anyone can think that is appropriate behaviour. You do NOT wake people up! "Poor bloke, it's his bathroom..." ffs, he's not an incontinent cat with a favourite piss-mat. I hope he enjoys his evening of alarms and then maybe the message will get through.

H is still alive. I am tired. With shocking PMT.
If he does it again in the near future I will kill him.

she's typing words into a computer

she's venting

she's not shouting at him

there's a difference

OP - i understand your resentment of his thoughtless behaviour

And what is all this "poor man" crap? he's a life partner, not a 5 year old

she's not shouting at him

Maybe you should, OP. Quiet conversations can be overrated.

ffs, he's not an incontinent cat with a favourite piss-mat.

Weeing laughing!

Weeing laughing!

Go to your piss mat! 😂

Lweji: "Maybe you should, OP. Quiet conversations can be overrated."

I think that sometimes, when I hear about some of the frankly awful behaviours some women are subjected to by their "D"H/Ps. I'd go ballistic in their shoes!

There are two kinds of people.

Those who can fall into a deep, heavy sleep within 10 seconds, that only a foghorn an inch away from their ear can wake them from.

And those who take an hour or two to nod off into a light dream filled sleep that an ants fart could wake them from.

Often those two types end up living together and here we are. I feel like the ones saying "poor DH" are the heavy sleepers. I'm an ants fart sleeper and totally get it.

2 days a week my husband goes to work early, 3 days a week I get up early to go to work. Husband used to think it ok to put light on when he was getting dressed, so he could see what he was doing, I never did, but repeatedly asked him not to, didn't work. In the end, every time I got up, bedroom light would go on, and when he realised how horrible it was, he stopped doing it, and so did I. Sometimes, other people can't see how inconvienient it is, no matter how many times you have told them, until they experience it first hand. So, no, YANBU!

*Pagwatch; For the love of god can we not use fucktard.
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Why? He's being exactly that.

Fucktard is short for Fucking Retard, so now can you see why it is extremely offensive?

*Ants fart sleeper!!!
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Brilliant 😆😆😆

I've always thought if it as a Fucking Bastard mash-up.

Poverty. Not where I come from whatsoever. 🙄

What is the origin where you are from?
Actually, it doesn't really matter as it is still seen by many as a disablist insult and causes upset, so wouldn't it be better not to use it?

Maybe you should not let him drink after 6pm and see if he can avoid noisy toilet visits

DD2 creeps in to my en suite, uses the toilet quietly, doesn't flush and creeps out back to bed LEAVING THE LIGHT ON AND THE DOOR WIDE OPEN, so I get to smell wee and have to get up and turn off the light.

I feel your pain.

Poverty like Mitzy everyone I know uses it as a an abbreviation of fucking bastard.