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HAVE YOU CANCELLED THE CHEQUE YET, OP?

607 replies

TheDevilMadeMeDoIt · 08/05/2016 12:12

Just askin'

And place marking for updates Grin

This thread can't end there, it's not an episode of Eastenders!

OP posts:
MadamDeathstare · 11/05/2016 13:31

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Janecc · 11/05/2016 13:40

I bet there's two very red faced newly weds wishing they'd never checked the amount of the cheque.

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 11/05/2016 13:42

This Is in the Independent online!

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 11/05/2016 13:43

Sorry, the Telegraph. Wedding guest asked by bride for a 'bigger contribution' after giving her £100 cheque - www.telegraph.co.uk
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/05/11/wedding-guest-asked-by-bride-for-a-bigger-contribution-after-giv/

Aeroflotgirl · 11/05/2016 13:45

Words fail me, I read this from ITV, I was shocked and disgusted. I hope they are shamed now.

HooseRice · 11/05/2016 13:45

The story is on STV FB and there are a scullion posts about cancelling the cheque.

Grin
HooseRice · 11/05/2016 13:46

squillion

Bambambini · 11/05/2016 13:57

All this coverage and it could be a bunch of made up bollocks. An anonymous poster making an anonymous comment on a message board - it's crazy.

Seeyounearertime · 11/05/2016 13:59

At this point i dont think it matters whether its true or not. Its reaching a wide audience and is showing what people think about money grabbing when it comes to weddings.

FatherReboolaConundrum · 11/05/2016 15:03

All this coverage and it could be a bunch of made up bollocks. True of much that passes for news in world where free online news has run the traditional, expensive model of journalism into the ground.

I do wonder if the Daily Heil are lifting stories from here because their 'lifestyle journalists' have been getting their arses handed to them in Media Requests for their shitty, exploitative, misogynistic, semi-literate requests. Why go to the trouble of posing a stupid question about 'push presents', getting told where to go, and throwing all your toys out of the pram, when you can just harvest juicy stories from existing threads?

LadyCassandra · 11/05/2016 15:26

www.mamamia.com.au/ask-for-more-money-at-wedding/

It's made it to Australia! On their not so good version of MN

Several "cancel the cheque" suggestions Grin

LadyCassandra · 11/05/2016 15:29

On FB, no comments on the article Blush

Mcchickenbb41 · 11/05/2016 15:50

This story has just been on my local radio station BBC three counties.

Waffles80 · 11/05/2016 15:52

Thank God the Guardian posted it on their FB page. Some brilliant advice from first person to respond.

HAVE YOU CANCELLED THE CHEQUE YET, OP?
DreamingofItaly · 11/05/2016 16:03

Chardonnay, you're right. The furore over this thread does remind me of the "do you dunk your penis" thread that broke MN a few years ago!

Poor Puzzled, definitely outed to grabby bride. Don't worry, MN are with you! FWIW anyway.

thatorchidmoment · 11/05/2016 16:05

I have a poem I'm polishing up a bit on the subject...

Currently scans as fairly blank verse.

Grin
auntie2bee · 11/05/2016 16:06

Story made it on to some of the local county radio stations in Ireland

thatorchidmoment · 11/05/2016 16:21

Here we go folks:

Once there was a wedding, unremarkable you'd think,
And you'd be quite right in your supposition.
And the honeymoon, luxurious, with noses sunburned pink,
That's not the subject of this small submission.

It's events that then ensue, and a greed that does pursue,
Most determinédly after more largesse.
From a poor ex-colleague who most politely gave a few
Of her shekels as a gesture of noblesse.

But alas, her kindly gesture was receivéd with a sneer,
And a missive of aggression yet passivity.
With the rudest of suggestions that she part with more possessions,
To ease the pain of hitherto austerity.

Our heroine turned to the nest of vipers for a clue,
Who responded to her plight with wit and fury.
Where unanimity is rare, each one responded with great flair:
'is she on glue?' And 'YANBU: the cheeky mare!'

The battle cry arose, with the swelling Mumsnet chorus,
And this the maxim great, is what we take from it.
The lesson sure and true, which resounds the ages through,
And this is how is goes, to all posterity:

"CANCEL THE CHEQUE!"

Our heroine sighed patiently and gently did explain,
That the Grabbersons had rendered this unfeasible.
With their talons in the hundred quid, they graspéd after more,
The funds were tucked up tightly in collateral.

This tale of avarice now resounds across the land,
With Evans, Holly, Vanessa and Phil on it.
With the Daily Mail reporting and the twitterati snorting:
"Cancel the cheque!"

To the shameless Grabbersons, with their effrontery exposed,
And their rude request for quantitative easing.
We do proffer the advice of a nation undergoing,
Unprecedented governmental squeezing:

"Be gracious and accept the kindness proffered:
Please expect no further swelling of your coffers!
In short, we say: Cancel the cheque!"

originalmavis · 11/05/2016 16:23

Did the original OP come back?

NickiFury · 11/05/2016 16:28

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DinosaursRoar · 11/05/2016 16:29

OriginalMavis - yes on the other thread and earlier on this one, still no news from the bride and groom.

Actually, I wonder if the B&G are on honeymoon, completely oblivious to this and as it'll have blown over by the time they return, and never know how much outrage their message caused!

Ameliablue · 11/05/2016 16:33

It's even on STV.
stv.tv/news/uk/1353693-newlyweds-suggest-wedding-guest-adjust

RiverTam · 11/05/2016 16:37

If you'd actually read the thread,mavis you'd know that the OP came back many times, and has been on this thread too.

Seeyounearertime · 11/05/2016 16:42

Its gone as far around the world as it can Grin

New Zealand
www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=11637443

RuggerHug · 11/05/2016 16:43

Thatorchidmoment....I bow to your skills!Grin

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