But it is offence to those who wear weaves or straight hair. Black women's hair being so political comes from a disgusting misogynoir narrative, in the first instance; There are photos of Beyonce online with her natural hair, particularly after the birth of her child, there for anyone to see.
Black women cannot speak about empowerment, or feminism, or sexism, or our every day experiences unless our hair is wholly natural thus making us the "right type" of woman. Female civil rights activists were not all "Angela Davis" style, many wore wigs, relaxed their hair etc particularly during the 50s an 60s and still fought for their rights, as tough as anyone out there, right through to the 70s/80s. As tough as those men who started politicising black women's hair, were raising fists and shouting about unity and black power, but behind closed doors had black women doing the bulk of the organisation's work, whilst they themselves went with "Becky with the good hair" and jumped through hoops to hide that from the eyes of the world
Every other nation of women can wig, weave etc - but when black women do it, its an issue and that is very telling in itself. Its one reason why most of us take zero notice of dissenters, who will always find a reason to present a black woman as "not the right type of woman" - whilst uplifting another who IS the right type based solely on how she looks, dresses and does her hair. Just like that
I've seen mention made upthread somewhere of Erykah Badu being a better "role model" than Beyonce. For me and many women I know, she is not, actually. Its all a game, women being set against each other. Erykah Badu is a woman with 3 children 3 different baby daddys and got naked in a videoclip, not tastefully naked either - that, I wouldnt necessarily judge her on but given that Beyonce is a married woman within a family unit, its laughable Badu is being put forward as black women's ideal simply because she has natural hair, dresses the part, and sings about a "consciousness ideal" she isn't even living.
Badu at the moment is blaming women wearing shorter skirts for being a temptation to men and increasing incidences of rape. I find her victim blaming abhorrent, as do many, given the Twitter backlash against her - we women must cover up totally head to toe, so as not to be a "trial " to men. its ever the black woman's fault. The hypocrisy of misogynoir/misogyny and those women who buy into it, truly stinks. So many dissecting Beyonce (glad to see most is in a good and measured way) but also some criticising her deeply, whilst what Badu is currently saying doesnt seem to even register outside the black woman's experience of hidden assaults and justification of rape
Beyonce is false, Badu is not. Ridiculously ironic
Beyonce can wear whatever she likes on her head, as can any woman. Many women start coming to an age of enlightenment in life so regarding her life and music and lyrics, why shouldn't she?
People need to leave black women alone.. Yes many of us like messing with our hair, wigs weaves dye etc.we like experimenting with clothes, we love fashion, we don't all think in uniform fashion we can change our thoughts dreams processes in life. We are not another species - we are women like any other and just as all other women we are multi-faceted and don't want, need or appreciate being put into 1 box. Much of what Beyonce is doing now can relate to all women, not just black women. & thats all good.