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AIBU to Worry that Mumsnetters Can be Too Mean and Judgemental?

158 replies

LizzyELane · 22/04/2016 19:49

I first posted on MN several years ago (under a different name) to ask other mums what they thought of a difficult relationship situation I was in. I literally had nowhere else to turn. The replies I had were many and varied but the negativity I received over a pretty reasonable subject was unbelievable. It put me off to be honest. I'm not some do-goody prat and I like to spout off at the best of times, but sometimes reading the highlighted posts on here makes me think of how when we are all in shops and our trolley or basket bumps someone else's and we all fall over ourselves to say 'oops sorry' , but then when in our cars protected by the metal and distance we shout and swear and let rip at the slightest thing!!

Are there any kind Mumsnetters out there who can restore my faith in MN that we are here to support each other and not be evil or nasty? Constructive/helpful comments or constructive criticism is different to just being mean. BTW I'm not a fluffy wetty, I just hate pointless negativity!

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MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:12

True, Need.

I think you should start your thread.

I'll agree YANBU.

Sparks Yes YABU. You should try one. Smile

LuisSuarezTeeth · 22/04/2016 21:14

There are too few peas in Pot Noodles.

Thundercunts, cuntychops and cuntwaffles must also be included.

Yes, Sparkling. YABU for never having a Pot Noodle.

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2016 21:16

Sad I will have a look next time I am in Home Bargains. Neither of my teenage sons has had the pleasure either. Shock

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:16

Right.

Lets sort this.

Dried flat peas = hamster/rabbit/other rodent/bird food.

Round, fresh or frozen peas = people food.

If you like them.

GAVEL.

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 21:16

NEGLECT!

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:17

Sparks Shock Wow.

My DS LIVED on them at one point.

Rite of passage.

GraysAnalogy · 22/04/2016 21:18

Could just eat a chicken and mushroom Pot Noodle. The old ones though. New ones arent as good.

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:19

Sparks Try B&M. Iirc, they are cheaper in there than anywhere else.

Might be limited on flavours, mind.

summerdreams · 22/04/2016 21:20

I want a pot noodle now,

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2016 21:22

B&M is nearer MrsV Grin

I saw this at Easter.

AIBU to Worry that Mumsnetters Can be Too Mean and Judgemental?
MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:27

Oh My God that is FANTASTIC !

I want one.

I love B&M. Home Bargains are rare down here. I'm often on their website ogling all the bargains I can't go and buy. Angry

I daren't shop online there. I'd have far too many sweeties and crispies. Blush

I have to restrain myself in Poundworld. I have an obsession with Mint Choc Mentos at the moment. Blardy lush, they are.

NeedACleverNN · 22/04/2016 21:28

We have a b and m.

It's ok....but i could live without it.

IWantMyMumSheWouldBeProud · 22/04/2016 21:30

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GraysAnalogy · 22/04/2016 21:30

I go in Home Bargains for loo roll. Come out with a face mask, 2 packets of obscure biscuits, some Frazzles, novelty headphones and some Scholl shoe inserts.

AnotherTimeMaybe · 22/04/2016 21:35

IWantMyMum I think she posted once only few years back

IWantMyMumSheWouldBeProud · 22/04/2016 21:35

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NeedACleverNN · 22/04/2016 21:36

I go to savers for my loo roll

£1.99 for 6 pack of triple velvet

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2016 21:38

Our Home Bargains is massive. We also have a JTF Discount Warehouse which is like a no frills Home Bargains Grin

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:38

Yy, Grays. Smile

I get my Cushelle in Lidl. Can't get to Costco, like Honeys DH. Sad

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:39

Never heard of JTF ?

We have a couple of The Range's here.

They are hard to get to too. I feel deprived.

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 22/04/2016 21:42

Whereabouts are you again spark ? I know it's not far from me and I want to visit a jtf but didn't know there was one near

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2016 21:42

www.jtf.com/

Glamorous it ain't.

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2016 21:44

Nearest one to us is Kidderminster sharon.

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 21:45

Wot no sweeties/crispies ? Shock

Pah.