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AIBU to Worry that Mumsnetters Can be Too Mean and Judgemental?

158 replies

LizzyELane · 22/04/2016 19:49

I first posted on MN several years ago (under a different name) to ask other mums what they thought of a difficult relationship situation I was in. I literally had nowhere else to turn. The replies I had were many and varied but the negativity I received over a pretty reasonable subject was unbelievable. It put me off to be honest. I'm not some do-goody prat and I like to spout off at the best of times, but sometimes reading the highlighted posts on here makes me think of how when we are all in shops and our trolley or basket bumps someone else's and we all fall over ourselves to say 'oops sorry' , but then when in our cars protected by the metal and distance we shout and swear and let rip at the slightest thing!!

Are there any kind Mumsnetters out there who can restore my faith in MN that we are here to support each other and not be evil or nasty? Constructive/helpful comments or constructive criticism is different to just being mean. BTW I'm not a fluffy wetty, I just hate pointless negativity!

OP posts:
CaptainCrunch · 22/04/2016 20:26

There are some right cunts on here.

PersisFord · 22/04/2016 20:28

excited I read your post as "getting turned on" as in......feeling the sexy GrinGrinGrin was trying to think what comments you might be thinking of posting!!!!!

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2016 20:28

Is there a backstory to that statement CC? Grin

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:30

You're welcome Captain Thanks

voddiekeepsmesane · 22/04/2016 20:33

I can be direct and take no prisoners within AIBU ...mean meh ...maybe if you are too sensitive. Within the rest of MN depending on the situation I can be sympathetic, direct, and still be pleasant. It really depends on each posters experiences and views IMO

LittleMissBossyBoots · 22/04/2016 20:34

I've seen some pretty bloody nasty stuff on AIBU over the years but other sections are generally kind and supportive. To be fair even AIBU has it's moments. I posted there within minutes of hearing my dad had died, in an absolute flap over what to do as I live abroad. Everyone was so kind and supportive and got me through that initial shock of confusion and terror.

LuisSuarezTeeth · 22/04/2016 20:34

MN is overwhelmingly supportive with a sprinkling of meanness and judmentallynessism

Captain Crunch there are also some left cunts in here. Inclusivity, yeah?

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 20:39

Well. There must be Green Cunts, Liberal Cunts, and other Cunts here too, yes ?

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:40

I think you probably need medical advise for Green cunts.

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:40

AdviCe

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:41

Trump cunts

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 20:42

True, Honey.

What about blue cunts ?

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 20:43

Hearts

PARP PARRRRP PARRRRRRRP

That sort of trumping cunt ? [grin{

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 20:44
Grin

Obvs. Hmm

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:44

Ffs NO ONE GOOGLE BLUE CUNT.

NeedACleverNN · 22/04/2016 20:44

Blue cunts?

You mean blue waffles don't ya? Grin

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:45

You had to say didn't you. Jeez, Need you've let me down, you've let Mumsnet down etc etc ...

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 20:46

Honey You didn't ? Really ?

You should know better. Grin

Was hoping for a picture...did you find the pic of DC and the poke in a pig ?

NeedACleverNN · 22/04/2016 20:46

I'm sorry.

Please forgive me

I was just being a cunt like someone said I was

PortiaCastis · 22/04/2016 20:49

I'm a red cunt, it was that waxing at lunchtime she was in a hurry.

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:49

Weirdly in amongst the frankly disturbing things I dare not click upon George Galloway is mentioned a lot ConfusedGrin

EmpressOfTheSevenOceans · 22/04/2016 20:49

There's no cunt like an atrocious cunt.

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:50

I like a lot of different cunts. I'm cunt-curious.

HoneyDragon · 22/04/2016 20:51

Oh god op. I'm really really sorry I've done this to your thread Blush

MrsVamos · 22/04/2016 20:52

She'll forgive you, Need.

She adores me and I have am a MAHOOSIVE Cunt. Grin