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AIBU?

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To have a little Goth night in on my own..

238 replies

Lanark2 · 15/04/2016 22:07

I have just been reminded of how much 'me' some of that dark 80s Goth stuff is, and my friends are being boring. AIBU to get wine (not blue nun or Liebfraumilch sadly) and listen to only Cure, Mission, Nephilim, and Mary Chain all night???

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Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:35

Haha..yes Marianne is actually v. Optimistic compared with...Smile

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Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:35

Mmm rakim is so gorgeous...

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CockacidalManiac · 16/04/2016 00:36

Lanark, insist on a rehearsal of your funeral now, that'd be really goth. Just insist on standing there while it goes on in a big black veil.

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:38

Oh fuck. American girl has started also dead can dance... 'We've been to long American dreaming I think we've lost our heart'...ow heart pain at the beauty...

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Onykahonie · 16/04/2016 00:38

Lanark I assume you have children? I've endured High School Musical and (c)rap music, so look forward to getting my own back Wink

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:39

:) cockicidal I would fucking love that...

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CockacidalManiac · 16/04/2016 00:40

4AD had the best posters

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:40

Oh FUCK mesmerism........dead can dance shit....thus is neck hair standing...!!!

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darksideofthemooncup · 16/04/2016 00:42

I've had to put Banshees Swimming Horses on to cheer myself up. lanark I agree with Cockacid but only if I can join in

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:42

Totes!!

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UntilTheCowsComeHome · 16/04/2016 00:46

I was never really a true goth as I prefered to listen to metal, but I loved to dress full goth and do the whole 'mean and moody' thing.

My favourite pastime was lying on top of tombs in old graveyards and upsetting passing old people.

The highlight of my life was being told my crimped hair was beautiful by Pete Steele.

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:47

I would love to put speakers along a big long yew tunnel and have a funeral at dusk with my body on a trolly pulled by black horses and an impossibly long train of people who knew me around the corner into the nearest town who wouldn't get to the yew tunnel until after midnight and everyone takes speed and vodka to keep awake till dawn

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CockacidalManiac · 16/04/2016 00:49

Cooling down now with the panto goth of Phantasmagoria

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:51

I want my funeral to be a series of Shakespeare soliloquies in a room of hooded witnesses who haven't washed since I died welcoming in my longest lost friends and telling them its their fault for not loving me more.

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Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:52

Hey untilthecowscimehome that's quite good! What metal is on the edge??

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CockacidalManiac · 16/04/2016 00:52

You've got it well planned!

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 00:54

Swimming horses ..

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darksideofthemooncup · 16/04/2016 00:57

No one has mentioned Bowie, I would never have been a Goth without his influence, listening to Letter to Hermione...

NuclearTextbooksAtomicCrimes · 16/04/2016 01:01

This might be a totally left-field question but I'm going to ask it anyway. The 4 steps forward/4 steps back - was that a national thing or just a local (not telling you where) standard dance move?

CockacidalManiac · 16/04/2016 01:02

Isn't that the Hokey Cokey?

darksideofthemooncup · 16/04/2016 01:02

In fact the album Space Oddity was the soundtrack to my best/worst year (1987 as illustrated up thread) I fell in love and got my heart broken. And I wouldn't change one thing about it

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 01:02

Bowie is known.

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NuclearTextbooksAtomicCrimes · 16/04/2016 01:03

Grin the right leg in bit was missing

Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 01:08

I am on reptile NIN .. Want to get back so... Going via Marilyn Manson beautiful people then nitzer ebb hearts and minds then combi Christ ..er that one about the weapon!!..we are industrialists for a bit,!!?

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Lanark2 · 16/04/2016 01:12

Then some Bowie I guess.. Can we count Bauhaus Ziggy,??

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