I hate the 'you don't understand or don't want to understand so just shut up and go away'
It's a fair common argument on mn lately. Designed to stop any discussion.
CA does exist. The problem is that it's become a 'buzz phrase' and been thrown around needlessly.
A white person with braids or lox being view as OK when black people are view negatively. Is not CA, imo. Because the person wearing them isn't making that judgment. Thats prejudice, which is coming from the people making that judgment.
Food being changed so it sells in a country, it's being sold in is not CA. It's good business to adjust things to sell to the audience you have.
I keep hearing that 'pp has explained it, why don't you understand it?'
Because I have asked questions after that, which people don't seem to be able to answer.
I was invited to Ramadan at my best friends. They did henna on my hands and forearms and gave me clothes to wear. I wasn't pretending to be Muslim. I was honoured to be invited and welcomed. None of my friends extended family would think it was CA. They actively encouraged it. They would be pretty pissed off to be told it was racist to do so.
If I had gone pretending I was a Muslim or from Pakistan (like they are) and talked about my experience as a Pakistani or a Muslim. Then Fair enough.