Branleuse - its your choice to wear dreads if you want to. As said I fully understand why some people would be offended by that, and I appreciate their reasons; the feeling we can't "have" anything of our own - there is always somebody nosing, prying, aiming to emulate, imitate. Like having a big bully hovering and snatching toys "Its mine now!" is how I've heard it described. Yes, its exactly like that.
Its personal to me that, I don't find it offensive but not for "obvious" reasons - it is because I am not a fan of christianity including African-centred christianity, of which Rastafari is a branch. Hence I don't much care.
Brixtonian dreadies do make me roll my eyes, that will never change - Im not down with white people who want to walk the walk talk the talk but would cross the road to avoid saying good morning to a black man or woman.
Im not sure who mentioned the "keeping hair neat at work" thing as being not a good example, as everyone has to keep hair neat at work. Missing the point spectacularly - it is not about at work, or your employer.
Amarmai I agree with, spot on:- Race is def a part of CA. When a racial group is being kept down -not to mention imprisoned and killed -it is far more important to receive recognition for accomplishments. Instead those accomplishments are stolen and accredited to the dominant group. This also applies to women vv men
& yes when I see some minimising the experiences of non-whites in terms of cultural appropriation/race my mind vaguely wanders over the trans threads that seem to get everyone going - most seem to magically "understand" the appropriation of gender, yet close down completely in wanting to understand the appropriation of race and culture, and its effects which include sexism and a certain sub-set of misogyny that will scorn us for the very things they admire in non-black women.
They'll be on another thread totally denying the experiences of women, simply because we are black women or Asian women; I can only deduce from that, an assumed "hierachy"
Thus I am developing a "let them eat cake" attitude with it all. If someone doesn't want to understand me I don't see it as my remit to understand them. It is what it is, life is too short to sweat it.