get it out before she pops 2

[littlemaemae]

Following on from aibu to take dd3 to a&e

I'll link to the original thread

Still rooting for you and dd littlemae. The advice people have given you is really good this is going on far to long I find this thread very scary.

Hi OP, Im hoping this thread will be far shorter than the last one! x

Marking place on the new thread and hoping this thread is where it all turns a corner.

If you're on the ward, waiting, can you use this time to start writing out a timeline of everything that has happened. Get everything recorded and written down?

Sending you strength from across the Atlantic, OP.

Following you over. This thread should be faster to load for you too.

Am hoping so much that they help dd

another one here Mae,hope you get chance to read my last post on the other thread

Meant the post at 0.32 not lady post

Wanting to add support

Stand your ground! We are all here for you.

Surely the absolute minimum at this point should be a clear care plan to understand what interventions will be made and at what point? I can't believe they just keep sending you away with such vague answers.

Still not been seen.
Initially refused pain killers, then finally had some bought to us.
Still no bedding.
She's crying in pain.
I just want to her to get help and us go to sleep

It makes me feel sick that if I hadn't gone to 10000 gp appointments this week and lost my temper with that nurse that she would have been left in this condition with zero monitoring.
We are in Northamptonshire.
I don't know what reputation the healthcare trust has.
A girl Who's sister I knew died here a few years ago due to neglect in care after an appendix op. She bled to death on this ward, she was 16. Poor thing.
Speaks for itself

I assume you have a perfumed life to cover the stink of your personality!

We have been on the ward since 11 perfumed life, waiting for a doctor that we have still not seen.
I am rubbing her back while I type.
I have been trying to get her to 'safety' and co operate with HCps all week to no avail.

Oh do jog on perfumedlife. The OP has had great advice on here and has every right to continue posting.

Time to kick things up a bit ,find out who is in charge at the moment & demand a doctor,tell whoever you ask that dd is in pain,you are worried & if anything happens you have made notes regarding her care & will be putting in a formal complaint.

You've come this far,push it now for the sake of minimae.

How long has it been since the enema?

Ignore perfumedlife OP, you're a wonderful mother and doing all you can for your DD.

I really hope she feel better soon, I am SO annoyed at how you have been treated and how you are still being treated!

Once your DD is feeling better please take some time to write complaints as its really not on to leave a child in this condition.

Sending you hugs and positive energy! X

Oh OP it's terrifying isn't it. You've done brilliantly with getting this far. Keep on keeping on. Starting with very nicely going over to the reception desk & asking where the linen cupboard is so that you can get your daughter some bedding. I've had to do this several times when DS has been on an admissions ward.

Try & get comfy & settle in for the wait to be seen. Lougles questions are great & exactly how we now deal with things for DS when needs be. Hope she's seen soon.