get it out before she pops 2

[littlemaemae]

Following on from aibu to take dd3 to a&e

Oh Little you poor thing, and your poor dd

I've got nothing to suggest but know that I'm thinking of you and hoping they pull their bloody fingers out soon. If you go down the formal complaint route there are lots of us on here that can offer support and advice xx

I might have missed it on the other thread
If you don't get any result today I would go private or do you have any other nearby (ish) hospitals with a good reputation you could go to? I know it's dragging her about but in the long run
I had constipation with dihydrocodeine and was in agony so she must be feeling pretty rubbish
Possibly shouldn't suggest this but do you have a friend who's maybe a nurse or paramedic that could drop in to "sit for a bit" with uniform on....?

Op, you are doing amazing. Dont listen to perfumedlife!

I'm trying, and failing, to see what would move someone to be a dick to a parent who is struggling and in need of support at a time like this. OP is where she needs to be and doing what she needs to be doing. She has done nothing but stand up for her DD all week. I highly doubt that she's sending the doctors away so she can post on MN first.

Just leave it, perfumedlife.

Perfumedlife, have my first FOTTFSOFATFOSM. Or a , whichever you prefer.

OP, I really hope that you get some bedding and the proper treatment for your DD.

She's started on the other thread also,I won't engage again,just report the sad cow

Christ it's hard not being a sheep! I've urged the op to get help for four days, since Tuesday. The poor lamb is all I can think about. Not bloody new threads on Mumsnet. I expressed that. Shoot me. I could care less. In six years on here, nowt bothers me, the bairn does. I think we all agree on that.

Yes we all agree that the child is what is important ,We've all recommended she seek further advice SHE HAS!
She's in hospital!

I would have died fighting for my kid before I updated mumsnet after days of trauma

To be fair, I have no difficulty visualising you stripped to the waist and challenging all the doctors and nurses in A&E to fight to the death.

What you have no difficulty visualising is of no consequence though...to be fair.

Neither is your opinion of consequence -to be fair

No, but laughably, neither is yours.

Have you really nothing better to do on a Friday night ?
You are so bored you would rather troll a thread about a poorly child?

I could ask you the same? I have commented on this thread since Tuesday. Are you the thread cop? The content police? What you doing tonight that's so boring you are on a thread about a poorly child? I'm here because I am deadly concerned about that child, having experienced bad advice and near death. What's your reason?

Hope your little one is ok OP. Lost for words here. And worried.

Yes I have commented on the thread since the start , I've also been in the same situation as the Op - being fobbed off when in need of medical help my DC.
I haven't behaved as you have though, I'm sure your posts have been reported by many posters who are following this thread,I will not reply to you again.

Where you are explains a lot and I know which hospital you are in.

OP I am not fully up to date but that hospital does not have a Paed bowel specialist. The nearest is Leicester. Ask about an opinion from them ASAP.

And Leicester had a really good reputation with Paed bowel conditions.

Ask to see a specialist in paed gastroenterology and see what they say. If they say they haven't got one ask for Leicester to be contacted ASAP.

Thing is if something unusual is going on the liklihood of them having ever seen it, nevertheless dealt with it is low. It's not negligence but a lack of experience because in Northamptonshire the specialities are in our border counties like Leicester, Oxford, etc. We had to go to LRI for paed urology when my child was little because it simply wasn't available in county

"I haven't behaved as you have though, I'm sure your posts have been reported by many posters who are following this thread." Aye, very good.. Take care, you fount of wisdom and compassion. I wish you lots of happiness and luck...

I still feel sick about that wee lass and have all my prayers for help for her tonight.Nothing that has occurred this past four days has been good medicine.

Hi Mae am shifting over to the new thread. Well done for keeping on pushing health care professionals to act. God it's hard to deal with

Do not leave. REFUSE TO LEAVE.

Say "I am not leaving without an X-RAY" " I am worried she will get sepsis, I AM NOT LEAVING "

DO NOT LEAVE THE HOSPITAL UNTIL YOUR DAUGHTER IS BETTER. it does not matter what they think of you, do not leave or go home again. Stamp your foot, and threaten legal action if you need to, but stay there and fight.

Good luck.

I hope as I type this you have been seen and your daughter is more comfortable.

You are doing your very best for you daughter, it's the professionals that are letting you down. Best of luck op