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Aibu to think this is cruel?

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summerdreams · 14/03/2016 17:58

Was at a hospital appointment today with my 19 month old there was a mum and dad with a pram, 4 month old and a 2.5 year old it was a small playroom/waiting room the ages are guesses by the way.
They walked in 2.5 year old on reins and put the reins under the wheel of the pram so the little boy could only sit on the floor next to the pram no toys near enough to play with and the couple sat there dad reading a magazine and mum breastfeeding the 4 month old. I found this really odd and I could see other parents looking also. Its been annoying me since coming home the little boy was very quiet and never said much I keep tryna think of reasons for doing this and cannot really. We was at main childrens hospital and I understand people come from all over the country and are tired and stressed but cannot think why you'd tie your child up and ignore them ? Aibu Hmm

OP posts:
kali110 · 14/03/2016 22:17

MagicalMrsMistoffelees no that's what i got from your post. Confused

WonderingAspie · 14/03/2016 23:10

"Wow! A 2.5 year old sat still and quiet for an hour despite toys and other DC around? confused

That is no 2.5 year old I know!"

I have social services files that state "wondering was sat in the corner of the room for an hour and did not move or speak" I was 3 years old and we were visiting social services at their offices. I was neglected and abused. As a result I was very unresponsive. It is actually possible you know Hmm.

OP, YANBU. I find it hard to believe that no one would have been judging if witnessing this situation. That poor boy.

RudeElf · 14/03/2016 23:20

It is actually possible you know Hmm

Hmm yourself! You've misinterpretted the intention of my post. I didnt say it didnt happen or wasnt possible! I am shocked that he sat for an hour in silence and think its really sad. Like i said, its no 2.5 year old i know. They are/were all chatter and playing and whining and squealing.

roundaboutthetown · 15/03/2016 10:51

I'm not sure of the point of wondering after the event? It won't achieve anything for the child concerned or lead you to the real reason, as nobody knows the full situation. If it was that obviously cruel, the time to question it was during the hour concerned - even if only to ask the parents if they'd like you to bring their boy one of the toys from the play area, to keep him busy while they waited, or to raise it with a member of staff.

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