AIBU or shitty behaviour?

[Nataleejah]

My best friend had a birthday. I got her a card and a present. She called me on the day and said i wasn't invited to the party because its "family only". Ok, fair enough.
Then she put party pics on facebook -- neighbours, her kids' friends... Certainly not "family only". But i was specifically uninvited.
WTF?

If the husband is intercepting her phone, and you know he has controlling and abusive, that is a different situation altogether, especially you said he does not like you. It's his way of controlling and alienating her from her friends. Can you pop round hers, or have some other way of contacting her. Does that text sound unlike her, seems very short and abrupt. I would think its from him. Can you call her and arrange to meet up.