Thanks, honey. The supportive posters more than made up for the others who found themselves unable to post a reasoned response.
You gotta feel sorry for some of them! 
Oh, I found my lost post:
Thanks, Nell, that's a very good post!
Surely basic ethical living is going without a little, where you can? Less meat, less dairy, less travel, fewer processed goods, less consumption generally, fewer children. Different sacrifices are easier and harder for different people. Nobody is trying to win a bloody prize.
That's what I was trying to say when I said we all do what we can - but you've said it much better!
I'm glad I started this thread, I've learned a lot from pp on here - especially the Badger tip, Contessa! 
The Co-op are also very good for vegan wine - it's won a few prizes in the past, I believe.
I'm quite proud of that photo, Cote. Not bad for a 76yr-old (as I was then) vegan, is it? 
About calcium - where do you think cows get it from? From eating grass and other veg. OK, I believe some of it is given as a supplement, possibly. But where do you think our closest living relatives (chimpanzees and all the other primates) get it from. Being plant-eaters, they certainly don't get it from drinking cows milk! 
betsy - no yoni for me, I'm afraid. (I'll have to google it!)