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to start a thread for all the pissed off Mother's Day influx?

244 replies

PaulAnkaTheDog · 05/03/2016 22:52

Just that really. It could get quite comical really: Who got the worst gift?! It could also stop the usual situation of umpteen threads bitching about the lack of diamonds flowers etc.

One thread to rule them all...

OP posts:
PaulAnkaTheDog · 06/03/2016 09:32

Currently hiding in the bathroom because ds seems to think that if I don't have a massive smile on my face I'm not happy. It's probably not appropriate to explain to a nine year old about 'resting bitch face'. Grin

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TimeToMuskUp · 06/03/2016 09:33

My DCs gave me the following this morning; one wet the bed and had to be stripped and washed at 2am, the other woke up with bellyache, got in bed with us, slept like a starfish and woke me at 5am by kicking me in the face.

I wouldn't change a second of it because I'm fully aware of how fortunate I am to even have DCs.

Fieryfighter · 06/03/2016 09:34

I'm lying in bed with the roof of my mouth feeling like it's burning off! Ds1 made me tea and Marmite on toast with sooooo much Marmite on. I valiantly ate half a piece and have hidden the rest to bin. Was pleased with the chocolate bar, then saw it's from 'The Lite Chocolate company' with no added sugar. I'm assuming it's not a hint but lack of reading the packet!! Bless 'im

coffeeisnectar · 06/03/2016 09:35

I'm still in bed. My girls came in with cards and presents this morning. Teen bought me a little trinket box which had been engraved with "to mum, love you forever as nd always, teen and Dd 2" and I was a bit weepy about that as teen has been very grumpy 'recently and I can never seem to do anything right in her eyes. She also bought me a little compact mirror.

Dd 2, after dragging dp round loads of shops yesterday, bought me a new mug. We have loads of mugs but she said this is my luxury mug but can I please unwrap it because she wants the bubble wrap :o

MrsHathaway · 06/03/2016 09:35

Fret not, Worra. I was fortunate enough to fall ill at a weekend, where I could rest properly, and feel worse on a Monday, when I could see a GP and get straight on antibiotics. I'm aware of how big a part luck played.

Yes, lying in bed all day for days and days on end when you're physically but not intellectually suffering is horribly boring. I'm very glad to have a telly in my room, and a Sky Movies subscription!

For those wondering about the state of my digestive tract ... Unfortunately my prediction was correct. DC1 has bounced back immediately [yay] [sod] so I'm contemplating sending them all for lunch with PIL and going back to bed on my own with last week's Night Manager and Call The Midwife.

Reading through these posts: Mother's Day is so loaded, isn't it? DH has got MIL a "... from your favourite child" card and it's just incomprehensible to me how someone could joke about that. Obviously hilarious from an only child, but otherwise I just don't get it.

Flowers and Cake to those without current supportive maternal relationships, whatever the cause. And particular CakeChocolate to those who would like to be the supportive maternal part of a relationship but are prevented by circumstances.

Today I am Hmm on behalf of a friend with a small baby, because people keep wishing her a happy first MD as a mother herself. She lost a baby in 2013 and too few people remember. I think she was glad of my message during her night feed.

yorkshapudding · 06/03/2016 09:35

Poverty I'm exactly the same, tend to stay in on Valentines day for the same reasons. DH has announced he will be treating us to a takeaway of my choice tonight once DD is in bed which will be much more relaxing for me than a meal out with a toddler.

AutumnLeavesArePretty · 06/03/2016 09:38

I don't think anything could stop the usual moaning, I've already seen the flowers weren't expensive enough, flowers for his mum were too expensive, the breakfast in bed wasn't good enough, the present was tat and meals / days out not meeting expectations.

Am now awaiting the influx of threads moaning that their DH has the audacity to visit his own mother.

It's a sad indication of society. Surely just being with your child and seeing them smile is enough and a bonus if school kindly made cards with them.

Bluecarrot · 06/03/2016 09:40

At inlaws. Eldest dd went to sleep at her cousins next door, youngest suffocated me snuggled my head the whole night. Dc3 in utero is behaving impeccably ;)

Will take them for an ice cream later.

Pantone363 · 06/03/2016 09:42

3 of my DC aren't here. They're with ex and his girlfriend. They bought her flowers, cards, chocolates and sweets. They couldn't be arsed to go to town with DP to get me something and told him to just choose something. DC4 is hanging off my boob BFIng, DP is fast asleep.

Think I'll settle down here Wink

kellybee90 · 06/03/2016 09:42

I'm trying not to get upset at the negative pregnancy test I just took. Oh well, there's always next month!

In the mean time I got some flowers, chocolates and a card from DSS which was so so special just to be recognised (I know he was adamant that he was getting me something as "it's not fair there's not a step mums day"). And as he's with his DM today I got a lie in Smile

Now to drag myself out of bed and start sorting the afternoon tea I'm doing my for my DM and DMIL!Smile

Femmegirl33 · 06/03/2016 09:45

We've a cancelled Mother's Day this year - our 15 year old son got caught smoking weed last week and is grounded. Our 17 yr old has a new girlfriend and is spending ALL his time with her, my partner managed to drag him out of her arms to the shops yesterday where apparently he did buy me something but I've not been given anything yet. Then first thing this morning he texted us from his room to say could he have a lift into town to get something he needs for a show he's in later today - no mention of Mothers Day. My partner texted him back saying 'yes of course but say HMD to your mother' - he then posted a pic on FB of me with a nice caption. However he's going out at 10am and won't be back til late tonight after his show - which he doesn't want us to go to.
The 15 yr old refused to go shopping because we'd grounded him 'I'm grounded I can't go shopping' and is spending the entire time in his room and refusing to come out except to eat.
My partner's mother is Australian and lives in Sydney where it's not MD and my own mother died 3 yrs ago.
So instead my partner is going to clean out the shed then we are going to take the dogs for a walk across the fields to the pub where no doubt there will be lots of happy families treating their mums.

lo0ol · 06/03/2016 09:50

Pantone - that's shit, I'm in a similar situation. DP is snoring next to me, no baby but am pg. DP got me a card from the bump though.

Femmegirl33 · 06/03/2016 09:50

We've a cancelled Mother's Day this year - our 15 year old son got caught smoking weed last week and is grounded. Our 17 yr old has a new girlfriend and is spending ALL his time with her, my partner managed to drag him out of her arms to the shops yesterday where apparently he did buy me something but I've not been given anything yet. Then first thing this morning he texted us from his room to say could he have a lift into town to get something he needs for a show he's in later today - no mention of Mothers Day. My partner texted him back saying 'yes of course but say HMD to your mother' - he then posted a pic on FB of me with a nice caption. However he's going out at 10am and won't be back til late tonight after his show - which he doesn't want us to go to.
The 15 yr old refused to go shopping because we'd grounded him 'I'm grounded I can't go shopping' and is spending the entire time in his room and refusing to come out except to eat.
My partner's mother is Australian and lives in Sydney where it's not MD and my own mother died 3 yrs ago.
So instead my partner is going to clean out the shed then we are going to take the dogs for a walk across the fields to the pub where no doubt there will be lots of happy families treating their mums.

Femmegirl33 · 06/03/2016 09:51

Oops sorry didn't mean to post twice - iPhone lag

Oysterbabe · 06/03/2016 09:54

Nothing from my 9 week old yet, she hasn't even mentioned it. Ungrateful little shit.

HooseRice · 06/03/2016 09:54

Two kids who make me cards and bookmarks. More than delighted with that. That's as far as MD goes here.

Sorry to the PP who was knee deep in spew last night Flowers

IthinkIamsinking · 06/03/2016 09:56

Am now awaiting the influx of threads moaning that their DH has the audacity to visit his own mother

Waiting are you? Perhaps time for you to go and find something more interesting to do Hmm

PovertyPain · 06/03/2016 09:56

I'm so glad there are other women who think going out is rubbish, York. Smile

Goingtobeawesome · 06/03/2016 09:58

Update on the with sympathy card ds.

I'm very happy. He's bought me a card which a toddler would choose because it has Paddington on it. His room was Paddington because of a childhood memory of mine and he has lots of soft paddingtons. He's put thought in to it and that is all I wanted. No present but genuinely not bothered and I am usually a spoilt madam about stuff. It really is the thought that counts.

Tennis is on at 1 so I'll be watching that later.

OhGodWhatTheHellNow · 06/03/2016 09:59

Dh managed to organise the dcs with cards and small gift ( which I have now noticed has cereal stuck to it from DDS breakfast Grin ) but unfortunately hasn't managed to organise himself into a good mood before taking some flowers to Dmil. They are generally tetchy with each other so I think I might duck out of the trip and spend the afternoon painting a buddy bench for the school.

Which doesn't do Mothers day, so no sticky homemade cards. They make up for it at Easter.

Pseudo341 · 06/03/2016 10:00

My five year old's drawn me a card with a picture of me in a superhero cape, it's the best mother's day gift ever! I also have a hand print card from the toddler that the nursery staff have written.

Goingtobeawesome · 06/03/2016 10:01

Happy birthday Chilver. FlowersCake.

QOD · 06/03/2016 10:02

That's nice. 17 yr old dd just stood at the bathroom door asking how long I'd be
I said 10/15 mins - why?
Because I want you to make.me beans on toast ...

Oh ok, says I, happy mothers day to me aye? Supposed to be you making it for me

and she's flounced off

I dont care, grumpy cow

Kitsandkids · 06/03/2016 10:04

I really don't care about Mother's Day. My own mum didn't make a fuss over it so I don't either. I always give her a card and present though.

My 2 boys have presented me with various homemade offerings they made at clubs and school, which is lovely. Most lovely of all is the fact they've written 'Mum' in the cards, because technically I'm not. They are my foster children, but are staying with me until adulthood so calling me Mum is allowed by SS. Also, at a club earlier in the week they came out with a decorated cupcake each which they joyfully presented me with and demanded I ate them. Virtually all the other kids were eating theirs and their mothers didn't get a look in.

angielou123 · 06/03/2016 10:04

I got a plant, 4 card, (4 kids), some things made at nursery and school and a scratchcard that I won a tenner on! No peace, no quiet, which is all I really want.

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