I'm not sure either of you super achievers understand the argument I've made. Repeat, S.L.O.W.Y, success is not just down to hard work and good life choices there are other elements. When you make disparaging remarks about lower earners or people in unfortunate situations you ignore the elements of circumstance and the equality of opportunity.
Want2b, my "mindset" is that you should work hard its a necessity to get on, there is no "woe is me" here. However you don't seem to get the fact that: "they didn't clock that I was 6 months pregnant" is down to luck, you may not have been offered the job. The fact that you got offered a job as an experienced member of staff yet had no formal qualification in the area is luck too, had there been as suitable a candidate with the formal qualification they may have got the job. Its not just down to your hard work.
Deo, oh dear, the social capital you discuss is why you send your children to private school, yet you want the much lower funded state schools to address this too along with all the other social elements we are asked to address but not provided funding for? I
"something some rich parents instead choose to burden the state with - shame on them for not using private schools and taking food from the mouth of the poor." Sorry if I don't bow down to your munificence. If the wealthiest in the country, and the corporations they run actually paid their fair share of tax we may not have to have austerity which effects the opportunities offered by state schools.
Really tired: Ed and David Milliband, Oona King, Sadiq Kahn all comprehensives, that's just from the top of my head.