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To think I might be pregnant (please please tell me I am!)

35 replies

Hiphopopotamus · 29/02/2016 11:48

So - I had unprotected sex about a month ago (I know I know - very stupid) The pregnancy risk was a worry, but my period arrived 8 days later so I figured all was good. Period was normal heavyish flow but quite 'clotty' (sorry for TMI!)

However, for the last few days I've felt really weird. My boobs are incredibly sore at a time in my cycle when they normally wouldn't be. I'm alternating between feeling nauseous and feeling so hungry that I can't get enough food down me. Do you think there's a chance I could be pregnant, even with having had my period.

I do have a pregnancy test but I'm putting off taking it as if it's positive it would be a bloody disaster!

So - before I take it I'm looking for reassurance - and please, no safe sex lectures - believe me this won't happen again!!

OP posts:
Hiphopopotamus · 29/02/2016 11:49

Just realised my title is a bit misleading - I mean please tell me I'm unreasonable, not please tell me I'm pregnant!!

OP posts:
RudeElf · 29/02/2016 11:51

Take the test. No one here can tell you anything.

ManneryTowers · 29/02/2016 11:51

Just take the test. How can anyone on here possibly give you a more certain answer?!

ManneryTowers · 29/02/2016 11:51

Sorry Elf, massive cross post

gamerchick · 29/02/2016 11:52

You know what to do, go do it.

RedOnHerHedd · 29/02/2016 11:53

You're probably not, you've more than likely just wound yourself up with worry over it. Take the test and put your mind at rest Thanks

WorraLiberty · 29/02/2016 11:53

What's the point in this thread?

Just POAS.

WonderingAspie · 29/02/2016 11:54

No one can tell you this so it seems daft that you are posting it. I'd say it's unlikely tbh. Just pee on the stick!

Chchchchange · 29/02/2016 11:54

Not remotely a lecture but you do know if this happens again there's the morning after pill?

I think you just have to take the test. Hope you get the result you want

tobysmum77 · 29/02/2016 11:57

I reckon yabu

The nausea is probably a virus and monthly symptoms can vary. But take the effing test Smile

LagunaBubbles · 29/02/2016 11:59

YABU expecting people on the internet to tell you "dont worry you wont be pregnant" when all you need to do is test.

EponasWildDaughter · 29/02/2016 11:59

You had unprotected sex 8 days before your period was due (so probably a bit too late to catch ovulation if you have an average cycle) and then had the period as normal.

So if the unprotected sex was about a month ago that would mean that you're now roughly in the middle of your next cycle and the symptoms you describe could be down to ovulation coming round again.

You're probably not preg. But take the test and then you'll know.

OohMavis · 29/02/2016 12:00

If you had a period it is extremely unlikely that you are pregnant. Random hormone surges can occur at any time in your cycle, which can cause the symptoms you describe.

Take the test, ease your mind. And if it is positive, it's best to know now so you can consider your options as early as possible.

StillDrSethHazlittMD · 29/02/2016 12:01

YABU to post a pointless thread.

Hiphopopotamus · 29/02/2016 12:05

Yep I know the thread is pointless, and I know a test can tell me far more than you fine lovely people. Sometimes people just need a bit of cajoling and handholding! Plus it's good to hear other people's opinions on the likelihood.

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CakeNinja · 29/02/2016 12:06

Oh yes you are definitely pregnant. I can see inside you.
I might be lying.
Take the bloody test Confused

BooAvenue · 29/02/2016 12:08

I'll hold your hand but please do the test!

Buxtonstill · 29/02/2016 12:12

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seafoodeatit · 29/02/2016 12:13

As stated by others, the chance of you being pregnant is very slim given that you've had a regular period so yes YABU to think you are pregnant, if in doubt test.

fuzzpig · 29/02/2016 12:15

It's very unlikely.

C'mon OP just POAS, you can do it :)

Hennifer · 29/02/2016 12:18

You can test but it would be a waste of a test as you've already had a period since you had sex.

I wouldn't.

WorraLiberty · 29/02/2016 12:27

Plus it's good to hear other people's opinions on the likelihood.

Why?? Unless you really want to milk the whole thing, it will make no difference to you whatsoever.

KitKat1985 · 29/02/2016 12:29

Given that you've had a period, it would be very, very unlikely. Take the test and put your mind at rest.

maybebabybee · 29/02/2016 12:30

If it was a normal period (ie not lighter than usual) then no, you are not pregnant.

Thurlow · 29/02/2016 12:30

Well, the likelihood is slim as you had a period 8 days later, which was too early to be any kind of miscarriage or passing of a failed implantation or anything like that.

But you do have to test. If any of us were that magic at predicting pregnancy we wouldn't be pissing around on MN in the middle of the day, because we'd be out making our fortune.

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