To eat Chocolate in front of DH when he is on a GP imposed Diet

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Just eaten a whole bar of Cadburys Fruit and Nut, DH is whimpering and giving me the big eyed treatment, but not sharing with him his GP has him on a diet for a reason.

DH says I am cruel and wicked and that I don't love him and is sulking.

So am I being unreasonable??? I am not on a diet.

I wouldn't do this, it's not very fair is it? Especially if the diet has just started (?).

I think you are being quite unhelpful. It is really hard to stick to a diet in the early days and having someone else eating stuff that you really want right in front of you isn't all that supportive. Couldn't you have gone somewhere else?

Is this a reverse?

Well it's not very fair to him to be actively trying to derail him

I think you are both unreasonable and mean.

Really cruel. I'm in your DH position and it's so hard.

YABU!

Fair enough, you're not on a diet, but do you really have to eat it right in front of his nose?

Yes he's on a diet for a reason but dieting is HARD your know. That's why so many people fail at it even when they desperately want to lose weight.

I presume you care about his health so how about giving him some support? Get lots of healthy snacks in and maybe join him in eating healthier, even if you don't need to lose weight.

Just keep the chocolate out of sight- or better still, send it over to me for safe keeping!

I think that's unkind.

Why would you want to be unkind?

do you often eat whole bars of chocolate?

anyway, you should share imo, so what if he is on a diet, it is up to him

I would

Very childish and selfish of you.

Dunno, do you want to support him or do you want to make it hard for him?

YABU it's very unsupportive.

YABU. It's not fair to eat it in front of him.

not very nice of you

Was this supposed to be 'hilarious'?

Yanbu Imo..and I'm dieting. Just because I'm on a diet it shouldn't stop my DP eating what he wants. He shouldn't have to feel guilty having a chocolate bar and biscuit just because I'm on a diet. You should be able to eat what you want.

Think is was pretty unsupportive of you and maybe a bit mean...his reaction seems a bit OTT but the first few days/weeks of giving something up can be pretty tough.

Not nice. Not supportive. Poor dh.

Unless you are with your dh 24/7 I don't see why you couldn't wait to have your bar of chocolate. My dh would never do this when I am dieting because he loves and respects me and therefore doesn't deliberately set out to make life harder for me. Dieting is bloody hard.

Very unsupportive of you.

We are in the same position as you, but I would make DH a fruit salad or a jelly and yogurt so he was having a treat too.

It does look like you're taunting him.

YABU

could you not have eaten it another time, or even in another room?

Yabu and spiteful.