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Cats and newborns

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Cnmorgan13 · 28/01/2016 12:19

Not strictly AIBU but really looking for advice. I'm 35 weeks pregnant with my first child. I have 2 ragdoll house cats. My concern is sleeping. Generally both cats sleep with me and DH at night. One cat in particular is very cuddly. Obviously I'm worried about what to do when baby is here. We are attempting to lock them downstairs to get used to not sleeping upstairs, of which one cat has adjusted fine. But my cuddly cat meows and stratches the carpet (of which she's began to destroy) we have manuvered a cat post behind the close when it closes at night. Which has now resulted in her banging the door. After about a week she mostly bangs/meows about an hour before we're due to get up.
I have never heard of a cat smothering a baby but safety is paramount. We have also been playing 'baby crying sound effects' for the cats to get used to. My non cuddly cat reacts to this by charging to the noise to see what the problem is. Is she now going to start going mental when she hears baby cry at night and is locked downstairs.
Any advise welcome!

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catsrus · 05/02/2016 23:02

One of my cats, when I had young DC, was very tolerant of toddlers - would let the dds dress her up and put her into the pushchair to be pushed around the garden. The first few times I rushed out to rescue the poor captive - but when I found her happily asleep under the blanket I decided she was more than able to decide for herself Grin. The thing is - cats have personalities just like we do. Some are kind, some are mean. Some love babies and children, some don't. Some are jealous, some are generous. You just have to assess your cats with your DC and do what's sensible. I had an old boy cat that loved babies - kittens, puppies, humans, he didn't mind. His sister liked humans and their babies but was not impressed by other animals at all...

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