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To think these two girls should get a slap..

298 replies

Jenj1983 · 04/01/2016 21:44

for putting super glue onto the seat of a DISABLED toilet??!

Read the story earlier, apparently the two teens are aged 16-18, and some poor 4yo girl went in after them and had the skin ripped from the back of her legs!
No doubt these two little twats will get a lecture and a wrist slap.

OP posts:
ilovesooty · 05/01/2016 12:04

Please yourself as I said yesterday. I've discovered that was in any case the only available toilet so anything I wondered about re accessibility has become irrelevant and I conceded that that the act committed was the main issue anyway.
I don't think the comprehension skills of someone who can't read a user name correctly have much credibility anyway.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 05/01/2016 12:06

You'd think people were trying to stir up a bunfight on here

SoupDragon · 05/01/2016 12:09

I might be dimwitted viola but rather that than a liberal lefty.

I'd rather be accused of being a liberal leftie than to actually be a dimwitted violent thug.

SoupDragon · 05/01/2016 12:10

Oh, and welcome to MN, OP!

NattyNatural · 05/01/2016 12:15

Sorry sooty
I don't feel your user name to be of importance when you're saying horrible things. I also find people to nit pick at what someone has written as a sign of a lost argument as you have nothing else to defend yourself with.

Now back to the real issue.

lorelei9 · 05/01/2016 12:23

Soup "No, lorelei I'd like them given chocolate and flowers and sent on an all inclusive holiday to the Caribbean. hmm What a idiotic question."

I don't know you, Soup. I have no way of knowing what you consider appropriate in response. One poster has called it a "prank". To me a "prank" doesn't warrant a penalty, so I have no way of knowing what you would do.

to that end, may I ask politely, what you consider a fitting legal response to a 16+ deciding to put superglue on the seat of a disabled toilet and on the baby changing table?

Jenj1983 · 05/01/2016 12:26

Old poster new name soup

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lorelei9 · 05/01/2016 12:29

Jenj, not sure if that's meant for me but I meant, I don't know anyone on MN in real life and I haven't been here long enough to know what any particular posters think (I wouldn't like to assume anyway).

FarrowAndBallache · 05/01/2016 12:31

Only on MN would someone ask if the four year girl really be using the toilet.

coffeetasteslikeshit · 05/01/2016 12:36

This thread has gone weird.... or is it just that recent posters haven't RTFT? Or that they have but can't follow it?

SauvignonBlanche · 05/01/2016 12:38

I genuinely can't argue with people like you, i would lose my mind lol

It seems a little late for that. Hmm

ilovesooty · 05/01/2016 12:54

coffee it could be either laziness or incapacity as far as I can see.

LagunaBubbles · 05/01/2016 12:56

Teenagers may do stupid things. But this is more than just "stupidity". It takes some kind of twisted mind to find this act funny.

wannaBe · 05/01/2016 13:04

I bet the daily mail would have a field day with this thread. Wink.

The reality is that This story isn't even news. Teenagers have been doing stupid things like this for eternity. they always have and they always will. Does it make it right or OK? No. And especially if they were sixteen and eighteen as the articles have suggested I would wonder how on earth they had got to that age and done something like that. If they were mine I would come down on them like a ton of bricks.

But the antics of teenagers haven't previously been plastered all over the internet until the last ten years or so. But I bet that if you put a thread up here asking what stupid things mn'ers had done when they were teens and thought were funny the results wouldn't be dissimilar to putting glue on a chair to see what would happen, or putting a bucket of water on top of a door so when someone opened it they were soaked.

To suggest that this is a hate crime is hysterical and diminishes actual hate crime. To suggest that they should be jailed for the rest of their lives... Well, there are no words to respond to that kind of idiotic response.

Given the entirely OTT reactions some people have given on this thread, there are some who have a bloody shock in store when your kids grow into teens and start acting in a way which you feel would be inappropriate.

The girls in question here need a bloody good talking to. And who knows what, if any, consequences there will be for them legally. But actually, they couldn't possibly have known what the consequences would be of their actions. Super glue dries pretty quickly, within seconds. So another couple of minutes and there would have been no consequences from them putting the glue in that toilet.

They need a slap in the "wtf were you stupid girls thinking," way, as in, if they were mine they would get a bloody slap (metaphorically speaking.) but everything else just shows people up to be not very bright. At all.

Dawndonnaagain · 05/01/2016 13:28

I genuinely can't argue with people like you, i would lose my mind lol
You can't argue with a 19 year old person with a disability. A person who is intelligent, articulate and very aware of the politics of the day? Why is that? I rather thought my post was clear, if not as concise as it could perhaps have been. I can put it a tad more succinctly if you like.
Dawndonna's dd

coffeetasteslikeshit · 05/01/2016 13:39

I wonder if some of you have ever been on YouTube? A quick search gave me:

  • Super Glue Lips Shut Challenge
  • Ben Phillips - Super Glue Prank!
  • Super Glue My Nose Shut - Eating Scorpions - Tongue in Mouse trap | Top Challenges #60
  • Superglue In Hair Gel Prank
  • SuperGlue Hat Prank
  • BEST PRANK OF 2015: SUPER GLUED BUTT
  • Super Glue Beer Can On Head Prank
  • Super Glue Challenge! (Feat Grandma)
  • Angry Grandpa - Superglue Gum in beard prank!
  • Super hair gel - Elliot ends up in hospital - PRANK

and so on....

These 2 girls are not the only teenagers in the world who think that super glue is super funny.
Unfortunately they were stupid and unthinking, but evil cunt holes? No. A bit too extreme for me.

Jux · 05/01/2016 13:41

Teenagers brains are flooded with chemicals, and as a result could be termed 'mad'. I read that in something like New Scientist, years ago.

I think personality etc will determine how utterly stupidly a 'mad' teen may behave. My best friend in my teens was a very confident outgoing girl, phenomenally intelligent. Actually rather a nice girl, well brought up, private school, upper middle class family. She was idiotic as a teen. Any idea that popped into her head was acted on, she had no 'stop' valve, no inhibitions. She needed someone to keep an eye on her almost at all times. She tied her little brother to a chair and put chewing gum in his hair because she wanted to see if freezing the gum would get it off.

She became a very sober, pretty boring, music teacher. She might even be teaching the children of MNers! You'd never believe what this dull, frumpy woman was like as a teen.

SoupDragon · 05/01/2016 13:55

One poster has called it a "prank

I didn't. I called it despicable.

SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 05/01/2016 14:06

I used the word "prank". Purely for want of a better word at the time.

I also used the word "disgraceful".

Ilikeminitwirls · 05/01/2016 14:13

The girls behaviour was abhorrent and they need punishment through the legal system, but dear God I'm shocked by Jenj1 post & the other post advocating vigilante violence as any kind of solution . If it had happened to my child I would have been extremely upset but wouldn't want to slap/punch girls or indeed call them cunt holes

SoupDragon · 05/01/2016 14:15

I imagine that, unless you have super glued yourself to something before, you have no idea how much it hurts to unpeel yourself.

I have superglued my fingers to many things on many occasions. You would have thought I would have learned by now.

ReallyTired · 05/01/2016 14:53

"Teenagers brains are flooded with chemicals, and as a result could be termed 'mad'. I read that in something like New Scientist, years ago."

That is the reason that teenagers are not tried as adults and are sent to young offender units rather than proper prisons. Most teenagers have some inhibitions and do not put superglue on toilets or changing areas.

Criminals should not be assualted, but punished in accordance with the law and have a right to a fair trial. My fear is that that the girls will be able to argue that having the case plastered all over facebook makes a fair trial impossible.

Jux · 05/01/2016 14:59

Agree with everything you say, ReallyTired.

OhSoggyBiscuit · 05/01/2016 16:22

It's a wicked thing to do indeed- the two girls should at least receive community service for their actions.

But threats of violence are a bit much yes? That's going down to their level, surely?

Also add me to the list of people who don't see why a 4 year old girl shouldn't use the disabled. She's 4, 4 year olds sometimes decide they need to go NOW.

Theworldmakesnosense · 05/01/2016 16:50

It's all very well to bang on about the 'right way to behave' but the bottom line is if someone did that to your child and ripped the skin off your legs you'd be angry. And you can't say how you'd react until you felt an anger like it