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To damn the date and go home?

155 replies

AtSea1979 · 18/11/2015 19:23

I'm cold, he was suppose to be here at 7. He text after I already set off to ask if we could put it back to 7:15. I got it when I parked up at 6:50. I told him I was here but sure 7:15 is fine. Now he's just rang telling me he's at a similar sounding place 15 mins away. There's no hope is there? I might as well give up now! Then again babysitter is there now.

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Spurtle · 18/11/2015 22:15

I don't know how to find advanced search. Intrigued though.

fastdaytears · 18/11/2015 22:18

Gosh it's certainly been a rollercoaster OP. AS is so stalky!

Anyway update time soon please...

Fratelli · 18/11/2015 22:20

Yo get through them quick don't you op@

Mylittlelights · 18/11/2015 22:22

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Justaboy · 18/11/2015 22:22

Spurtle Its up there just under the Blue bar under "Offers"

I think we can presume that she's met her man and their well into the first round of drinks now:-)

And shes forgotten us when we were there to support her:-(

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 18/11/2015 22:23

It certainly is, Littlelights.

Cinzia69 · 18/11/2015 22:24

So many men, so little time?

Justaboy · 18/11/2015 22:25

Mylittlelights Ah ha so it is but shes says she only mating dating:!

Mylittlelights · 18/11/2015 22:28

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Lulabellarama · 18/11/2015 22:29

Nothing like a bit of slut/shaming to round off an evening.

Some of you are pretty unpleasant.

sonnyson12 · 18/11/2015 22:30

How is advanced search 'so stalky' if it saves you from being taken for a mug by some drama filled attention seeker that just loves an audience?

Cinzia69 · 18/11/2015 22:32

No slut shaming here. Fuck whomever you wish, just don't have a thread asking what to do when your 11 yr old ds walks in when you are dtd.

sonnyson12 · 18/11/2015 22:33

Bringing strangers you've just met back home to have sex with so your 10 year old can wake up and walk in to witness it is rather unpleasant though isn't it.

And rather unnecessary as they are clearly capable of arranging a babysitter.

MiniTheMinx · 18/11/2015 22:34

Gosh Op you are a busy bunny

fastdaytears · 18/11/2015 22:34

Oh when I say "stalky" I don't mean it in a bad way! Sorry! Just weird that you can search and find out in two seconds about the OP's sex life, children's health conditions and political leanings. Not criticising people for searching though.

OnTheEdgeToday · 18/11/2015 22:35

Well that escalated quickly...

sonnyson12 · 18/11/2015 22:38

Only because the Op publicly discloses her sex life, multiple relationships that all seem to overlap, domestic violence, expected marriage proposals et al.

One can hardly believe there is a child in the middle of all this.

fastdaytears · 18/11/2015 22:41

Things certainly seem to progress quickly in the OP's world. Very slow and boring here in comparison.

Justaboy · 18/11/2015 22:41

Well it might the same bloke nowt in the original post to say either way except shes got a sitter and shes meeting Mr Mystery.

expatinscotland · 18/11/2015 22:42

Oh, there's always a man in her life. There was this utter cocklodger living with her a while back. Some people just cannot go without a relationship.

MooseAndSquirrel · 18/11/2015 22:43

weird that you can search and find out in two seconds about the OP's sex life, children's health conditions and political leanings
Well if you post about them of course they can be found - really cant expect people not to make personal judgements when op puts out such personal information.

OnTheEdgeToday · 18/11/2015 22:43

Is this through that thing they call tinder?

Lynnm63 · 18/11/2015 22:43

I just figured out advanced search. That was informative.

fastdaytears · 18/11/2015 22:45

Well if you post about them of course they can be found - really cant expect people not to make personal judgements when op puts out such personal information.

No, and I'm not! I'm not anti-AS. It's a weird thing to be able to do. But we all choose what we put on here so I'm not criticising anyone. I think "stalky" sounded a bit more judgy than was intended.

sonnyson12 · 18/11/2015 22:45

Well if it is the same bloke, why on earth did she have to subject her 10 year old son witnessing her having sex with someone that is a stranger to him.

OP made it clear she is 'only dating, nothing serious'. Where is the child in all of this.