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"No woman is totally straight"

121 replies

PopGoesTheWeevil · 08/11/2015 16:11

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-34744903

AIBU to ask you whether this surprises you?

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PopGoesTheWeevil · 08/11/2015 16:12

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-34744903

Link should be clickable now...

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FindoGask · 08/11/2015 16:13

This is pretty old news, isn't it? Not that absolutely no woman is totally straight, but that all people are on a continuum somewhere between exclusively heterosexual and homosexual. Kinsey, 1960s, etc.

There's even a long questionnaire you can do online if you google - I was something like "mostly heterosexual but more than incidentally homosexual" or something.

PopGoesTheWeevil · 08/11/2015 16:21

The new bit is that most self-reported gay women are not bisexual, whereas all straight women are.

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ragged · 08/11/2015 16:22

Why should anybody care?

PopGoesTheWeevil · 08/11/2015 16:24

General interest in the world/people?

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CuntryLiving · 08/11/2015 16:26

Not at all surprised. I bet it'd be the same for men, if they measured physical responses to the right type of homosexual stimulus.

PopGoesTheWeevil · 08/11/2015 16:27

Also, Findo, this applies only to women. Men can be quite specific in their orientation.

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PopGoesTheWeevil · 08/11/2015 16:27

No, not the same for men.

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SilverOldie2 · 08/11/2015 16:29

Personally I think its bollocks. How come that I've reached the age of 70 without having felt any interest in women sexually at all - zero, zilch, none whatsoever, not even a twinge?

Djelibeyb · 08/11/2015 16:29

It's because us women are so hot no one can resist us Grin

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/11/2015 16:30

I find that I really only care about the sexuality of those I'm shagging (and Richard Armitage, it turns out). The world would be a better place if it were like whether you like coriander; not really important.

HedgehogAtHome · 08/11/2015 16:30

I'm not surprised that women are once again being told who they are / how they feel.

I wonder if men have no responses due to homophobia towards gay men in society from a 'real man' patriarchal view, where as lesbians can be viewed as 'hot' by men and this trickles into what we see and believe to be sexually arousing.

SaucyJack · 08/11/2015 16:33

Who doesn't like to look at nice pair of bosoms?!

ApplesinmyPocket · 08/11/2015 16:41

I'm with SilverOldie. "The University of Essex study concluded that no woman is "totally straight" - NO woman? Bollocks.

LucasIsMyMuse · 08/11/2015 16:42

Lol at Mrs TP.

StrangeLookingParasite · 08/11/2015 16:43

Pretty small sample to be drawing that conclusion.

HolgerDanske · 08/11/2015 16:43

Meh, I disagree. Not even the least bit curious.

pinotblush · 08/11/2015 16:44

I also think it's a load of old cods-wallop.

I can definitely say Im straight.

noeffingidea · 08/11/2015 16:47

Me, saucyjack. I have absolutely no interest in any part of a woman's body.

cleaty · 08/11/2015 16:48

I remember reading a thread on here where a lot of straight women did confess that they had been attracted to a woman at some point.

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/11/2015 16:49

Funnily enough you could argue that a study that shows, for example, gay and straight porn is more a test of empathy than sexuality. I'm not a gay man but Queer as Folk was hot. Not because of the actual stuff going on but because of the acting. THEY were clearly turned on.

Also, how are they testing 'arousal levels'? "Arousal' in psychology terms is not just sexual arousal.

BugritAndTidyup · 08/11/2015 16:52

I wonder to what extent this result is due to conditioning caused by an over abundance of sexualised images of women in our society, rather that it being something inherant in women?

SarahSavesTheDay · 08/11/2015 16:55

I am totally straight. The idea of being intimate with a woman makes me feel queasy.

MrsMolesworth · 08/11/2015 16:57

It's a dreadful study, based on a false premise that arousal automatically equates to desire for what is being depicted. Whereas it's far more complex than that.

SurferJet · 08/11/2015 17:00

I think it's bollox too - I can look at a picture of a naked woman & probably think 'wow' simply because the female naked body is quite pleasing to look at - but to actually have sex with a woman? - no thanks!