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Am I a horrible neighbour or a bad mother

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dilki93 · 27/08/2015 01:18

I live in a flat with my 2 kids and as normal kids would they are very active and love running around.

My downstairs neighbour does not like this and she rang my door bell twice saying I should stop my 2 year old running around in the house as it is very noisy and disturbs her, and the worst thing is every time my child runs across the room or dances to her favourite music or jions in with her favourite TV programme my neighbour bangs her celing so hard my whole flat shakes.

I feel so guilty of disturbing my neighbour, and stressed about her banging I stopped playing music to my kids so they can't dance, they are not allowed to join in with (Tree-fu Tom) TV programms. When my kids run around in their own house I have to stop them and get them to sit down and do painting/drawing or play with building blocks which they get board so quickly. I try taking them out as much as I can but they still love running around in the house.

I feel so bad that I have to stop my children playing in their own house and contantly telling them not to run and disturb other people.

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ohtheholidays · 20/01/2016 10:50

OP YANBU it sounds like you've done lots to help lower any noise coming from your flat but your neighbour is being unreasonable,they're complaining about your children playing yet they have a Dog that isn't allowed where you live and is that in the middle of the night when the Dogs barking?If it is then I think you really need to make an official complaint.

DixieNormas · 20/01/2016 11:04

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GruntledOne · 20/01/2016 11:18

Four month old thread, folks.

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