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to send a bill for the gas/elec/water/etc in return?

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Tinklewinkle · 26/08/2015 10:25

We live in a popular holiday area and had some friends staying with us for a couple of weeks. They went home on Sunday.

They've always been really good friends, and we've always got on really well, their kids are the same age as ours and get on well too. We've been on holiday with them before and it was fine, although this is the first time they've stayed with us for more than a weekend

Anyway, one evening they'd been out and they rang to see if we needed anything from the shop on their way home. I asked them to grab some milk and a loaf of bread.

When they came in I was given the receipt - for about £2.50. I didn't have any cash in the house so apologised and said I'd sort it out the next day. Then, I'll be honest, completely forgot about it. Nothing more was said until they left on Sunday when they reminded them I owed them the £2.50. I had about 70p in cash in the house so apologised and gave them that.

I got a text this morning to remind me that I still owe the remainder and giving their bank details so I could do a bank transfer.

I've transferred the money as I can't be arsed hearing any more about it, but I think they've got a thunderingly massive bloody cheek.

They've pretty much got a free holiday out of us. They've stayed in our house for free, used water, gas, electricity. They ate breakfast here every morning, we fed them about 50% of evening meals, they used the washing machine and tumble drier, they've had tea, coffee, cold drinks, snacks, etc, etc, so I'm somewhat miffed that they've quibbled about £2.50 and feel like sending them a bill for 2 weeks worth of B&B.

We didn't actually invite them, they wanted to come here and asked if they could stay with us. We nearly always have people staying in the summer holidays, we don't mind in the slightest, we enjoy having guests and are happy to look after them, but I now feel like a mug

OP posts:
DoingTheGardening · 26/08/2015 19:09

Lurking for reply...
What fuckers!

duckyneedsaclean · 26/08/2015 19:10

Bloody hell!

oneowlgirl · 26/08/2015 19:12

That is shocking but well done for your text. I doubt they'll reply TBH as what can they actually say in return??

For me, that would be the end of the friendship, as I'm sorry to say but real friends aren't users like that.

Tinklewinkle · 26/08/2015 19:12

I don't think they'll reply now either, assuming it's been read

I was just looking through other iMessages, whenever I've messaged my DD1 or DH, they don't actually show up as 'read', some of them have 'delivered' underneath, some are blank

I had half expected the DH to phone my DH. DH is more likely to laugh it off over a "blokey chat" kind of thing I if you see what I mean, but I think he would have called by now.

OP posts:
eddielizzard · 26/08/2015 19:14

they won't reply because there's nothing they could possibly say to justify themselves. other than 'omfg i can't believe we were so thoughtless! sorry! come and stay at ours for a month, all expenses paid!'

Gruntfuttock · 26/08/2015 19:19

carabos I just can't get my head around how these people think. It's really incredible.

HabitualHobbyist · 26/08/2015 19:20

Jaw on the floor! The absolute cheek of them.

Twinklewinkle, you're not TidyDancer by another name are you? Sounds like the kind of characters she's had the misfortune to know/be related to!

YakTriangle · 26/08/2015 19:21
Shock I can't understand the sheer fucking outrageousness nerve of some people, not to mention the callousness of those asking for petrol money after emergency situations etc. OP, you'll be better off without them. Make some friends who don't pinch pennies until they squeak.
Wehavealwayslivedinthecastle · 26/08/2015 19:23

Well at least you've said something now twinkle. Unbelievable cheek from them!Hope they reply and apologise but suspect you'll hear nothing until they try their luck again!

FoxesSitOnBoxes · 26/08/2015 19:23

Reply to the text you utter bastards Angry

selsigfach · 26/08/2015 19:28

I think it will only tell you if they've read the message it you both have iPhones.

Yellowbird54321 · 26/08/2015 19:29

I don't think they are going to reply Sad. They have now, not only let you down OP, they have let down the rest of mumsnet too.

YakTriangle · 26/08/2015 19:29

They need to have 'send read receipts' turned on for you see whether they've actually seen the message.

Badders123 · 26/08/2015 19:30

My jaw is on the floor, people.
Some of these stories are funny in a sad sort of way but some.....Jesus.
I'm sorry mrsb.

Inertia · 26/08/2015 19:30

I was astounded by the OP- it's hard to understand how a couple can both be so grubby - but the stories of people taking advantage of bereavement are awful.

OP, your message was very restrained. I hope they have the self - awareness to be embarrassed and apologise, because they won't have many friends left if they continue to behave like this.

CremeBrulee · 26/08/2015 19:31

I think the worst bit is that they can't see anything askew with sending their bank details so you can immediately transfer the measly sum of £1.80!!

Hopefully they are having an epiphany like Scrooge after seeing the Xmas Ghosts and are now trying to write a suitably humble apology...

DirtyMugPolice · 26/08/2015 19:31

I never knew people like this existed in the real world, or people did stuff like this until MN Shock

Katedotness1963 · 26/08/2015 19:31

I don't know how many times I've checked this thread in hopes of an answer today! I'm with the folks that say there won't be a reply though, how could they possible excuse their behaviour??

msrisotto · 26/08/2015 19:41

You won't get a reply is my bet. They'll act as if nothing happened.

Theresaflyinmyhouse · 26/08/2015 19:47

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Corabell · 26/08/2015 19:55

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Gruntfuttock · 26/08/2015 19:57

What would be really funny is if the woman is a Mumsnetter and came on AIBU to complain about the text from the OP and found this thread. Grin

SoleBizzzz · 26/08/2015 20:02

She would be a lamb to the slaughter Grunt

What a pair of ungenerous, miserable petty cunts!

SouthWesterlyWinds · 26/08/2015 20:02

Tight with money, tight with texts. Do they not realise that an army of mumsnetters are avidly waiting?

SoleBizzzz · 26/08/2015 20:03

Oh by the way my reply costs you £2500