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tryharder100 · 18/08/2015 21:48

Really struggling to make ends meet.

My breaking point today was my daughters shoes rubbing and making her foot bleed due to being too small.

I have really decluttered in the last month and sold everything that is not essential to get us by but getting going back to school stuff has cleared me out again.

I need to come up with a plan for long term as can't go on like this but does anyone know if I could just walk into a clothes bank or something similar to get me by or if I would need to be referred and how do I do that?

Hate the thought of taking that help away from someone in more need than me but maybe need to shallow my pride a bit as clearly it's not helping my kids.

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WhyCantIuseTheNameIWant · 21/08/2015 02:06

Hi.
Just to say your box is ready to be posted first thing in the morning.
Optician was late today, so we missed the post office. Sorry.

tryharder100 · 21/08/2015 10:13

Thank you so much.

I will take a look at the tesco link see if it's something I can do. He has one logo jumper for last year so that will have to do him till November, hopefully won't lose it this time. xx

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Adarajames · 21/08/2015 22:52

Worth checking with your water supplier too, ours does a discounted scheme for those on low income, worth a call / email to find out if you're eligible

SmallLegsOrSmallEggs · 22/08/2015 13:36

Is the logo on last years jumper embroidered on to jumper or is it sewn in. My school uses a mix. The badges can be removed and sewn on to subsequent jumpers. A faff but does the job.

tryharder100 · 23/08/2015 14:10

The logos are sewn in smalllegs so wouldn't be able to transfer. Thanks for the idea though.

I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone who has helped me on this thread. I am feeling a lot more positive and am go grateful. x

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WhyCantIuseTheNameIWant · 23/08/2015 14:39

Glad you are feeling happier.
Hope your box arrives tomorrow for you.

RavioliOnToast · 23/08/2015 14:45

really pleased to hear you're feeling better tryharder

tryharder100 · 10/09/2015 20:07

Just wanted to say thank you to everyone for advice and help. I received lots of clothes and shoes for my daughter which has been a massive help. she is now sorted for winter.

I had a meeting with her nursery and she can start at the beginning of Nov so my childcare will go down from then, so I can then save a bit of money up to get my son's winter clothes.

I have managed to get a few bills sorted so hopefully be able to get the kids some Christmas presents together this year.

Thank you to everyone xx

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