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hair disaster please help!

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bleachblondedisaster · 08/08/2015 20:42

Regular but NC'd for this...HELLLLP

I've been blonde before, I'm naturally ginger,wanted to dye it back to blonde. Used Jerome Russell B Blonder maxximum lift kit like I always do - it was AGONY on my scalp and I don't know why. Left it to develop for about an hour, then washed it out. THIS HAPPENED.

HELP. Someone please tell me how to fix this, bearing in mind I only have a Tesco extra near me that's open at all. How do I fix this?! It's a disaster!

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PacificDogwood · 09/08/2015 16:59

Sounds like you have scalp dermatitis from the bleach - if it keeps weeping you must see your GP and never bleach again.

EponasWildDaughter · 09/08/2015 17:16

I suggest you do nothing to your hair except deep conditions and no heat appliances for as long as you can bare. 2/3 weeks min.

I second the poster up-thread who suggested Wella white lady, t18 - lightest ash blonde as a toner. I actually mix this half and half with the t11, which is a less ashy tone, and get a cool but lovely soft beige blond. You have to order it from the states (Amazon), but it arrives quickly. They're not expensive.

Use it with a 20% volume developer, (which you have to buy separately, but not nec. from Wella, USA) no higher than 20, which will be gentler than most high st boxed hair bleach. 2 parts developer to 1 part toner.

I wasted a lot of time mucking about with high st products (inc. 2 or 3 expensive purpley shampoos and boxed bleaches) trying to get the orangy tone out of my new bleached hair a few months ago. Over and over i saw the Wella toners recommended but couldn't be arsed to find them on the internet and wait for them to arrive.

When i finally bought them and used them my hair looked amazing, it only needing leaving on for 10 mins, no damange and NO MORE BRASSY TONES. Yay!

notquiteruralbliss · 09/08/2015 18:01

One of my DDs accidentally bleached her hair a similar colour so died it a mid to dark brown - it worked fine.

StatisticallyChallenged · 09/08/2015 18:26

Eponas, I got the t18 next day delivery on prime from UK amazon - I'm guessing they have it stocked in the uk now. Just FYI!

TheWernethWife · 09/08/2015 21:56

On a lighter note, I bleached my friends hair the night we were going to a gig. It went canary yellow so she had to wear a hat, she still talks about when I turned her into "Tweetie Pie"

bleachblondedisaster · 10/08/2015 19:07

I've now put a lovely Feria Lightest Ash Blonde on my hair - left it on for half an hour like it said and it's taken most of the brassy redness and orange away, and sent it a much nicer shade. It needs another layer of it, but generally I'm much happier with this colour as a more permanent solution.

Incidentally, my hair feels AMAZING. My mother put me onto olive oil and mayonnaise. You mix it, slather it in your hair then put on a shower cap. Leave it for like an hour and then wash it off with a really good shampoo. My hair feels in better condition than it was before the bleach!!

Scalp has stopped weeping, it's not itchy it's just a little scabby in places but not noticable. So everything is all good now :) I'm thinking of doing the ends in a violet colour, I have a temporary dye in a brand I trust so I'll do that in a few weeks.

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