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To think MN is getting nastier?

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MaggieJoyBlunt · 17/07/2015 15:15

So far this week we've had giving birth referred to as 'calving' (in the context of women having children while young). Someone loved that one so much they immediately commented on what a great expression it was and repeated it.

We've had someone propose that Prince Phillip should be 'humanely destroyed'. swiftly followed up by a similar suggestion about taking him out to a barn or a shed or some such and shooting him.

We've had a thread about the death of a convicted murdered where several posters queued up to tell us they were, smiling or "laughing gleefully" or simply to post "lol" as a one word comment. (Okay she was a vicious killer and will not be much missed, but really?)

Add to all of that the Budget threads where in the midst of people worrying and calculating the cut to their household budget, other people came to gloat and make helpful observations such as "If you can't afford DC, don't have them."

MN didn't used to be nasty. Vigorous, challenging etc; But not nasty.

What's going on around here?

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countryandchickens · 19/07/2015 21:44

I meant that HTH genuinely!

Mintyy · 19/07/2015 21:47

I quite like a well placed Hmm. Its a bit over-used, but what else do you add if you want to say [eh, just fucking eh? I don't get it!]

However, nothing is as overused on Mn as the inappropriately applied crossing out thing.

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 21:48

So my post was not worth commenting on and a bit goady.

WorraLiberty · 19/07/2015 21:49

I hate it when someone adds 'non'? to the end of a sentence.

This is rather annoying non?

Angry
Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 21:50

countryandchickens Biscuit

(I'm joking Wink)

But HTH can be wonderfully withering

Mintyy · 19/07/2015 21:54

Usual

Well imho, Tiggy misused the biscuit.

Although it is fair to have some sort of retort to "I just ignore the male posters" I'd have thought.

southeastastra · 19/07/2015 21:56

nah i really dislike hth, it sounds self-congratulatory. 'ooh i'm so witty with my passive aggressive post, followed by hth'

countryandchickens · 19/07/2015 21:57

But what if you were actually trying to be helpful?! Grin

will never use HTH again

sorry minty

WorraLiberty · 19/07/2015 21:58

Does HTH mean, 'Happy To Help' or 'Hope This Helps'?

I'm never sure. I thought it was the first one but a few people have said it's the second Confused

countryandchickens · 19/07/2015 21:59

I meant 'hope this helps' because I DID (hope it helped) NON?

Wink
Hexadecimal1 · 19/07/2015 22:00

Strike out is the most annoying thing ever. Ever. Ever.

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 22:01

Fair enough, Mintty.

I do ignore some male posters though.

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 22:02

I love the strike out, if it's used correctly.

I don't think some people get it though.

Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 22:18

Well imho, Tiggy misused the biscuit.

GrinPMSL (also annoying acronym)

Would like a Tena lady emoticon for PMSL

TiggyD · 19/07/2015 22:23

I miscuited. Sad

YouTheCat · 19/07/2015 23:34

Sophie, (from 2 pages back) I think we're on the same page then. Smile

I do like a nice biscuit.

Do people really put 'non' at the end of sentences? I've never seen it. I've heard it in real life from people who I consider to be utter tossers and who aren't French .

JointheJoyride · 19/07/2015 23:38

Nope it's not nastier. Not at all. It's thicker now. Ever since the desperately un-funny penis beaker it's been full of uneducated thick twits who live to seek out perceived slights and spell terribly. If anything, it's softer now.

WorraLiberty · 19/07/2015 23:59

At the risk of sounding 'thick', what does 'thick' actually mean in terms of parents posting on a support forum for parents?

Living to seek out perceived slights on the internet is pretty sad, you'll get no argument from me there, although it's certainly not something that's only done by uneducated people. You only have to look around some of the topics here to see that.

But being uneducated and unable to spell properly, is that something to complain about really?

Do 'uneducated' parents who are unable to spell, not deserve the same support/advice as everyone else? Confused

YouTheCat · 20/07/2015 00:05

I know some highly educated people who can't spell very well because they're dyslexic.

Nurserywindow · 20/07/2015 11:27

Can I just establish: should we not use the terms 'professionally offended' or 'PC brigade' anymore? Genuine question. I often use them, not directly to a poster in order to stifle debate, but in a general sense and had no idea until I read this thread that it seems to be a controversial issue.

I have a degree in English and often read errors in my posts after I've posted them. When you're typing as you're thinking and wondering how to get your point across, you're often not really concentrating on spelling or where an apostrophe should go. I find people who comment on spelling and grammar really rude.

SunnyBaudelaire · 20/07/2015 11:29

well if you have a degree in English, deconstruct those two phrases and see what you come up with.

Ubik1 · 20/07/2015 11:31

I'm an editor and proofreader. It's liberating to make spelling and grammatical errors on Mumsnet.

I do hate things like 'chestadraws' and 'here here' though.

I like referring to people as PO; it's a real thing.

Nurserywindow · 20/07/2015 11:36

I'm well aware of what they mean thank you Sunny.

SunnyBaudelaire · 20/07/2015 11:38

I didnt ask you their meanings, I told you to deconstruct them.
You must know what that means if you have an English degree.

Nurserywindow · 20/07/2015 11:42

Yes, Sunny it means to break them down into their component parts.

Are you always so rude?

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