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To think MN is getting nastier?

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MaggieJoyBlunt · 17/07/2015 15:15

So far this week we've had giving birth referred to as 'calving' (in the context of women having children while young). Someone loved that one so much they immediately commented on what a great expression it was and repeated it.

We've had someone propose that Prince Phillip should be 'humanely destroyed'. swiftly followed up by a similar suggestion about taking him out to a barn or a shed or some such and shooting him.

We've had a thread about the death of a convicted murdered where several posters queued up to tell us they were, smiling or "laughing gleefully" or simply to post "lol" as a one word comment. (Okay she was a vicious killer and will not be much missed, but really?)

Add to all of that the Budget threads where in the midst of people worrying and calculating the cut to their household budget, other people came to gloat and make helpful observations such as "If you can't afford DC, don't have them."

MN didn't used to be nasty. Vigorous, challenging etc; But not nasty.

What's going on around here?

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BIWI · 19/07/2015 21:13

Well yes, but that's not what this thread is about, really!

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 21:15

Can't we go back to talking about the nasty Royalty?

SophiePendragon · 19/07/2015 21:16

Sorry, feel free, I'm going to bed Smile

southeastastra · 19/07/2015 21:18

what's odfod?

MaggieJoyBlunt · 19/07/2015 21:22

"Oh do fuck off dear"

(Tiggy is male)

Smile
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TiggyD · 19/07/2015 21:22

If you can believe my birth certificate...

Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 21:24

ODFOD is another irritating one.

Someone posted that to me a while back and actually it's a bit abrasive. I blinked a few times. Then moved on.

Mintyy · 19/07/2015 21:25

Perhaps this is an example of where A Poster makes a thread #allaboutthem?

I do agree that is a tiresome habit of some Mnetters.

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 21:27

I've never had a ODFOD or a biscuit before.

It was a new MN experience.

MaggieJoyBlunt · 19/07/2015 21:27

I actually don't mind being told to ODFOD as much as I mind 'we've done this to death'. Much more withering and excluding (You might have done it to death, I/we haven't...)

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MaggieJoyBlunt · 19/07/2015 21:28

I've never seen them deployed together before usual. Some kind of win-double? Grin

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usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 21:32

I've been insulted many times on MN.

I will add the ODFOD and Biscuit double whammy to my list.

southeastastra · 19/07/2015 21:32

Grin odfod is a bit terence stamp in priscilla queen of the desert

the Hmm really does feck me off

Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 21:33

The biscuit's annoying too. I know the story behind it but don't think the rationale for the emoticon makes sense.

(Yes I am a miseryguts)

Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 21:34

Oh I love a bit of HmmHmmHmm

Mumsnet has something for everyone Hmm

TiggyD · 19/07/2015 21:35

I wonder why a biscuit is seen as a bad thing on here? As a big boned person (big fat wobbly bones mostly in the stomach area), being given a biscuit is more of a reward.

And why are we allowed to tell people to fuck off so long as it's acromynically done?

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 21:36

I like theHmm

I can't raise one eyebrow in RL , so I like to do it through the medium of smilieys

countryandchickens · 19/07/2015 21:36

It's a 'no comment' thing (the Biscuit)

In 2010, before the general election, someone asked Gordon brown what his favourite biscuit was and he refused to answer, so Biscuit became a sort of 'no comment' - it's generally used when someone posts a goady thread :)

HTH.

MaggieJoyBlunt · 19/07/2015 21:36

odfod is a bit terence stamp in priscilla queen of the desert

Yes!

I'm sure people only use it because it doesn't get deleted. Same with the Hmm and the Biscuit

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Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 21:38

This is true Tiggy. On a weight loss thread a Biscuit could be seen as kindness.
Cake would be cruel

usualsuspect333 · 19/07/2015 21:39

I love a good HTH.

Pagwatch · 19/07/2015 21:41

I fucking hate Hmm but I love HTHs

Ubik1 · 19/07/2015 21:41

Yes HTH is lovely - almost a put down but not quite.

I like a 'that's nice dear' on a particularly 'frank' sex thread.

ilovesooty · 19/07/2015 21:43

Or "thank you for sharing" Grin

Mintyy · 19/07/2015 21:43

The biscuit is "no comment". So when you post it the sub-text is "honestly, it is not worth commenting about". People might use it when they have seen the same op x 100 or when they are subject to some trivial minutiae of someone else's life, in the he said she said stylee, that they are truly not interested in.

ODFOD is quite an old acronym on Mumsnet. To be used when you suspect someone is trolling or being goady or just being very unpleasant.

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