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i am loathing the gradual creep of the term 'gotten' on here

291 replies

FrankietheSquealer · 09/07/2015 17:07

Please desist

OP posts:
ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 09/07/2015 19:11

You've gotten me to agree Grin

ImADonkeyOnTheEdge · 09/07/2015 19:12

Forgotten.

Gotten.

Phone didn't force me to change to anything else with either.

Not a problem. At all.

Pumpkinpositive · 09/07/2015 19:20

"Gotten" is Scottish English.

Deal with it, y'all.

CainInThePunting · 09/07/2015 20:09

Gotta love a pedants Fred!

YANBU

SwedishEdith · 09/07/2015 20:12

I really like it.

I don't like "gradual creep" though - sounds like horrible management speak to me.

lostincumbria · 09/07/2015 20:12

Never mind gotten, I was taught you never need to use got, just stick with have.

ilovesooty · 09/07/2015 20:19

My bugbear on here at the moment is "I seen" and "" I done"

Viviennemary · 09/07/2015 20:21

I hate it too. Luckily nobody I know says it. And also hate this I'm good. It's irritating. And see you soon from somebody you won't see soon and hardly even know. That's annoying too.

JohnCusacksWife · 09/07/2015 20:22

Hate "gotten" with a passion. Closely followed by people using "myself" when they mean "me". Makes me want to scream....

dementedma · 09/07/2015 20:22

"Can I get" is standard use here in Scotland
I hate "gotten' and " I'm loving/liking"
I was taking Ds to school last week and we were running late. He said"Its OK, the bell hasn't went yet!". I had to do a horrified "WHAT did you just say??????"

JohnCusacksWife · 09/07/2015 20:23

....oh and "yous" instead of "you". Speak properly for God's sake!!

ilovesooty · 09/07/2015 20:24

"Hasn't went"?? Hmm

SwedishEdith · 09/07/2015 20:25

You and yous is great - just like tu and vous. Makes perfect sense.

Pumpkinpositive · 09/07/2015 20:29

....oh and "yous" instead of "you". Speak properly for God's sake!!

"Yous" makes perfect sense for quick disambiguation of who the remark is aimed at - one of you or all of you. "Yous" being quicker to say than "all of you" or "you all".

My Basque born Spanish teacher approved of yous and used it liberally.

It is hardly the fault of the Scots that the English English has not developed a second person/third person plural differentation. [grins]

JohnCusacksWife · 09/07/2015 20:30

It may well be like tu and vous but it's still wrong!

Pumpkinpositive · 09/07/2015 20:31

Amn't I allowed to stay in the area outwith the city centre?

Brilliant.

Putten is growing on me now too.

I putten it on yesterday.

JohnCusacksWife · 09/07/2015 20:32

In 45 years I've never yet found the need to use "yous"

SwedishEdith · 09/07/2015 20:33

It's Irish (and, so Liverpool) as well. Totally logical. Feel sorry for yous who disapprove.

Pumpkinpositive · 09/07/2015 20:33

It may well be like tu and vous but it's still wrong!

Me, says you. I like it for everyday conversational use, not for an essay.

If you don't like it, don't use it.

JohnCusacksWife · 09/07/2015 20:34

Amn't and outwith are perfectly correct words. Yous isn't!

JohnCusacksWife · 09/07/2015 20:34

Pumpkin, don't worry ...it will never pass my lips!

Andylion · 09/07/2015 20:36

.....Closely followed by people using "myself" when they mean "me". Makes me want to scream....

I agree. It enrages me. Angry I need to relax. (I almost typed "I need to chill out" but then I thought that might enrage some posters. Grin )

Pomegranatemolasses · 09/07/2015 20:37

It's used widely (and correctly) in Ireland. Even news readers on RTE (our national broadcaster) use it. I have used it my entire life, as has everyone else here I can think of.

This topic seems to get a regular outing on Mumsnet. Don't worry, in a while you'll all have gotten over it.

Pumpkinpositive · 09/07/2015 20:41

I listened to an exchange once between acquaintances - a (Scottish) husband and (English) wife around his supposed denial that he'd smashed a dish in their kitchen.

According to her, when denying (correctly as it transpired) that he had not smashed the dish, he said "No, I never did that."

She took this to mean he was denying ever having smashed a dish in their kitchen. This boiled her piss because he was a dish smasher par excellence.

His position was that "No, I never did that" was a denial of having smashed a dish on that single occasion.

But to her, "No I never did that" is exactly equivalent to "No, I've never done that."

His position - and mine - is that "No, I never did that" and "No, I've never done that" denote two entirely different things.

I wonder what she would have made of "No, I never done that"?

chachaboom · 09/07/2015 20:46

I don't think I've ever heard anyone say gotten in real life.

How come nobody has mentioned SO yet?

People seem to be answering questions left right and centre starting with effing 'so'. Especially on the radio.

'Tell us a little bit about such and such'
'So, it does this and that and I sound like a tit'.

If you must start your answer with a random word use please 'well' like we've always done. Biscuit Biscuit Biscuit Biscuit

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