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be gutted about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner?

374 replies

Northernlurker · 30/06/2015 23:28

I've just read that they ARE divorcing. I was hoping it was all vicious rumour. They seemed like a genuine, real couple. Can nobody ever stay married in Hollywood? Hmm
It's coming to something when Warren Beatty, Warren Beatty , is an example of marital solidarity.

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Spog · 01/07/2015 19:46

i was talking about clooney and amal not having kids.
not hugh and deb who i know have kids.

SirChenjin · 01/07/2015 19:53

The teen DCs and I spent a very happy hour last week googling 'stars in the closet' (in our defence, it was a quiet day in the Chen household...) and it's amazing who's on there - some 'no ways', some 'mmm, maybe' and some 'they're still in the closets??'

I predicted this divorce years ago - they go married too quickly, which never bodes well in Hollywood . Very sad.

Pumpkinpositive · 01/07/2015 19:53

Is it because it would stop them being cast as romantic leads so often? Surely a gay man could play a straight man though...

Obviously they could. But they don't.

I am wracking my brains to think of an out gay man who plays heterosexual leading/romantic roles in mainstream movies.

None spring to mind. Anyone? Confused

GinUpGirl · 01/07/2015 20:02

I'll lose my shit if the Beckham's get divorced.

SirChenjin · 01/07/2015 20:06

Pumpkin - you're right, there's no-one is there? Shock Never thought about it 'til now

Pumpkinpositive · 01/07/2015 20:08

Dolly Parton and her husband. Thanks

Although rumour has it she actually murdered the ol' ball and chain long ago and buried him at Dollysville since nobody has actually seen him in at least 40 years.

Allegedly.

DustBunnyFarmer · 01/07/2015 20:11

Pumpkin - you're right, there's no-one is there?

DH and I tried, but couldn't think of anyone either. In fact, Anne Heche had quite a good career doing romcoms etc and then came out, career skidded to a halt. Um, Portia de Rossi played a heterosexual woman in Arrested Development - but to the ridiculous bloke that was in the Blue Man act, so not a serious relationship (more comedy foil) or lead role.

SirChenjin · 01/07/2015 20:14

So is GC gay then?? I'd read that he was going into politics, and needed to be seen to be married.

Mind you, the 'stars in the closet' websites also said that Rod Stewart was gay, so I'm taking it with a spadeload of salt

Y0la · 01/07/2015 20:18

And what about Amal, I know "what's in it for her?" is perhaps a stupid question but will she have a child? Not saying she has to. She has a great career, but most people (men, women, ambitious or otherwise) want one before it's too late. Amal seems to have it all and I wonder why she would want such a strange arrangement.

Pumpkinpositive · 01/07/2015 20:19

DH and I tried, but couldn't think of anyone either. In fact, Anne Heche had quite a good career doing romcoms etc and then came out, career skidded to a halt. Um, Portia de Rossi played a heterosexual woman in Arrested Development - but to the ridiculous bloke that was in the Blue Man act, so not a serious relationship (more comedy foil) or lead role.

Yeah, I thought much the same applied to women as I typed.

We can all sit and cackle about what sad old bastards the likes of Travolta and Cruise (allegedly) are for their "sham" marriages.

But there doesn't seem to be much precedent for high earning, A list "out" gay males or female actors in Hollywood.

They have a choice: beard up and continue to earn megabucks and enjoy the kind of professional success and lifestyle 99.9% of this planet can only dream of. Some might argue they do so at the expense of personal integrity and happiness in their private lives.

OR

come "out" and watch any chance at an A list career wither on the vine.

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annandale · 01/07/2015 20:22

Rod Stewart is surely exhausted, not gay.

Username12345 · 01/07/2015 20:22

So according to this thread, everyone's gay Hmm

A while back MNers were saying how the Beckhams were getting divorced. It was all hush hush and PM discussions.

I reckon you're all bullshitters TBH.

SirChenjin · 01/07/2015 20:23

Rod Stewart is surely exhausted, not gay

Grin Grin - that's probably why he's in the closet, it's to escape from all these women!

chickenstock · 01/07/2015 20:24

I was going to give Kevin Spacey as an example of an out gay actor who plays heterosexual lead roles. But according to Wikipedia he says he's not gay. Oh.

Pumpkinpositive · 01/07/2015 20:25

Has Wentworth Miller done anything since Prison Break?

TendonQueen · 01/07/2015 20:25

Jodie Foster is pretty much the only one. And she took ages to officially come out even though it had been suspected for some time.

SirChenjin · 01/07/2015 20:27

Kevin Spacey featured heavily in the 'stars in the closet' websites

Sansarya · 01/07/2015 20:29

each, your confusing Deborra-Lee Furness with Baz Lurhmann's wife Catherine Martin who's an Oscar-winning costume designer. They've been together since high school I think.

As for Deborra herself, I'm not sure who paid her £5m to marry a fairly unknown actor. At the time of their marriage she was better known and I doubt he had £1m let alone 5!

Sansarya · 01/07/2015 20:31

Oh hang on, was the £5m apparently what Amal got?

I don't get the "he wants to get into politics so he had to get married" thing. If that was the case then knowing how conservative American voters can be, then surely he'd have picked a wife who didn't have a Middle Eastern background?

MeltchettsLovelyMoustache · 01/07/2015 20:39

Neil Patrick Harris plays straight men. In HIMYN he was a player.

Pumpkinpositive · 01/07/2015 20:39

Oh hang on, was the £5m apparently what Amal got?

I'd do it for £5m. I might even throw in a complementary shag, if I was feeling generous.

Spog · 01/07/2015 20:40

Kevin Spacey is not out.
although even the dogs in the streets of london know he's gay.

EachandEveryone · 01/07/2015 20:40

Yes you are right. I stand corrected on that. Not on the other though!

That bloke on How I Met your Mother had straight rolls, can't think of anyone else off the top of my head.

Pumpkinpositive · 01/07/2015 20:41

Neil Patrick Harris plays straight men. In HIMYN he was a player

True, although he's not exactly an A lister. And didn't he take a while to vacate that closet?

DOOGIE HOWSER 4EVA!!!!!

Bambambini · 01/07/2015 20:41

So, is Baz Lurhmann straight? Wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if Jackman is gay - just seems so obvious.

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