Oh I have a target all over my face:
Yay a hat trick! Especially hard was the two years when I became severely disabled, from being a seemingly normal person, and there were some awful comments off people who couldn't cope with what was happening to me. And therefore were desperate to prove that either I wasnt 'one of them anymore', or that it was my fault in some way, or preferably, both. Sick fuckers. That hurt and anger never goes away.
A very senior person at the company where I worked: 'you're not ill you just need to lose some weight. Go to the gym and stop complaining'
Oh and 'you've had two weeks off this last 12 months, youve had your turn' when I was facing a diagnosis or best case scenario, severe disability and early death, or worst case scenario, terminal within months. I'd been pressured into cancelling hospital appointments, coming straight in after awful appointments including biopsies, and was forced to fly to Germany for 3 day 20hrs a day work when extremely ill and with a doctors note to say that any movement could deteriorate my condition and air travel was expressly banned. Sick fuckers.
Another very senior person: 'oh well, are you sure it just affects your body then, you're not ummm (makes rude gesture) mental?' Id just explained what I had and symptoms etc. in detail. It was her job to know this. So she knew exactly what it was, but she couldn't conceive of someone being physically ill, without becoming mentally deficient in some way. Grrrr.
And the best ones 'why didn't you know you were going to become disabled. Don't you think it was selfish to get married, and then to have a baby?' Off several people... Errrr, wow, didn't know my dodgy genes also came complete with a crystal ball so I'd know a decade before showing any symptoms... Yup that's me. Fuckkng selfish.
And loads more which I suppose could be considered ignorance (vs stupid evil fuckers!) but I won't get started :)