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To let go of the general assumption that stories and scenarios on a forum like MN should be true

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FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 11:36

Because mostly, I fear, they are not. I have to confess I simply do not understand the mindset that would sit and make up a whole story based on nothing but fantasy or what the author might deem a shocking or amusing scenario. I get that nobody will ever know why they do it - I suppose I'm just Shock at the sheer quantity of it at the moment. I'm pretty sure there's only one or two people behind most of it - law of averages says there just cannot be that many bullshitters on one section of a huge forum - or can there?
And if there is a general feeling that a particular poster or posters are just making up shit but not actually trolling - well - is this OK? I don't think it is but I'm prepared to rethink if I'm told it is. What does everyone else think?

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magimedi · 13/06/2015 22:38

Worra - Let me send you some cider asap to help your kidneeeeeeeeeeee!!

Sparklingbrook · 13/06/2015 22:41

I don't call them out. I roll my eyes and report. I usually just put 'Real or no Real' in the box. Grin

I don't want to invest in some hairy handed Jackanory/Chinny Reckon type situation.

WorraLiberty · 13/06/2015 22:43

Oh, should I be worried sooty? I thought shitting a kidney was normal?

See, this is why I love Mumsnet...I've learnt something new.

Perhaps you could all get together and crochet me a new kidney, whilst I take advantage of magimedi's very generous offer?

usualsuspect333 · 13/06/2015 22:44

I think it's ok to call them out. If they want to make up daft shit on the internet. Then I'm happy to tell them I don't believe them.

usualsuspect333 · 13/06/2015 22:47

But you are right crustaway , the trolling standards have definitely dropped.

Pantone363 · 13/06/2015 22:51

Is anyone else wondering if this thread is about them? my sleepover hell really did happen Angry. And a man in my local paper really did grow a 7ft thistle Angry

ilovesooty · 13/06/2015 23:01

I don't call them out. I just report as Sparkling said.

crustsaway · 13/06/2015 23:04

If someone feels the need to lie then I feel rather sorry for them. I don't scream and report, why would you do that? What annoys me the most to be honest are the people that feel it's their right to call it, I think to myself, who do YOU think you are. But again, I don't like "jobsworths". Some rules are for breaking. Do these people affect your life? err no. Maybe some others on here invest "too" much?

FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 23:05

As far as I know it's not about anyone actually on this thread! I know who I'm referring to - or should I say I know maybe three or four of their MN personas (is that even a word?) but I don't know who anyone else is thinking of.
Flowers Cake [coffee] Wine Cake Flowers and Wine for poor kidneyless worra though.

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NothingUpMySleeve · 13/06/2015 23:05

My SIL is a MNer, from this I have learnt that there are people who will compulsively lie about ridiculously mundane things, but that sometimes the big dramatic things that everyone calls bullshit on, are the rare RL events which impinge on the fantasy world.

There is a current poster(s?) who annoys me greatly. Regardless of whether or not the actual story is bullshit, there are some posters who just have this 'look at me' thing going on which grates. So they'll have several long drawn out threads about their terrible circumstances and, when they deign to post on someone else's thread, it is always to draw attention to themselves.

FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 23:05

Oh. [coffee] isn't a thing? Who knew? Grin

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Sparklingbrook · 13/06/2015 23:06

I don't 'scream' and report. Just report. Confused

FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 23:10

Who "screams and reports" then Crusts? Did someone say they do that because I must have missed that post. I'm not sure about your 'some rules are for breaking' analogy since as far as I'm aware it's not a RULE as such not to talk shit is it? It's bloody rude, a waste of time and highly irritating and I think anybody has the absolute right to question bullshit if they see it. Why wouldn't they? They don't need to think they're anyone special. You have a strange way of viewing things.

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crustsaway · 13/06/2015 23:11

You have a very angry way of viewing things farfrom.

usualsuspect333 · 13/06/2015 23:14

MN is a self moderating forum. If I think someone is full of bollocks I'm gonna call it.

crustsaway · 13/06/2015 23:14

Why report? who are you to judge? very strange. Just move on and don't enter into it anymore. I find it weird that people become so offended.

FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 23:16

Angry? Really? That's pretty funny actually! Grin Grin Grin

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SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 13/06/2015 23:17

I try to subtly call it too sometimes. And sometimes I not so subtly start a mock thread on it that gets deleted Grin

usualsuspect333 · 13/06/2015 23:17

I find it's usually the bullshitters that find reporting strange.

WorraLiberty · 13/06/2015 23:17

The whole point of reporting is that the person is not judging.

They're leaving it up to HQ to do that, which is what they ask members to do.

WorraLiberty · 13/06/2015 23:18

Far, please calm down and stop your screaming!!!!

FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 23:19

I find it's usually the bullshitters that find reporting strange

I am pretty sure that this is a true well known medical fact Grin - oh shit no, I don't mean Grin, I mean Angry

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ilovesooty · 13/06/2015 23:19

I don't "scream" either. Since MNHQ encourages reporting I'll carry on doing it.

Sparklingbrook · 13/06/2015 23:20

I am not judging when I report. Just that my radar has gone ping because I think it's cobblers. MN want you to report believe it or not.

FarFromAnyRoad · 13/06/2015 23:21

Who the fuck are you telling to calm down Worra you shit-clapping jizz monkey! Fuck the fuck off with your 'calm down' shit and if you don't like that you can get off MY thread..........

Grin
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