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AIBU?

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AIBU with DH

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rebbles · 29/05/2015 09:01

Yesterday DH went out all day and said he would be home at 7pm.

I haven't been feeling well and am 16+5 weeks pregnant.

I stupidly text saying enjoy yourself and stay out a bit later if you want and he said he would be home at
11pminstead, which would have been fine.

So queue 11pm, I called him to see if he wants me to pick him up from the station and he didn't answer his phone.

So naturally I panic as keep calling him. Anyway it took 15 calls before he answered and he was pissed out of his head still in London.

He said well I have had a few more beers since then and ends up getting home at 1pm.

He didn't text me once during the day (from 11am) to see how I was feeling and didn't see why I was annoyed when he got home and hadn't told me he was going to be late.

And then fact he didn't even care enough to text me once during the day, and that he didn't answer his phone.

To be fair he rarely goes out with his friends but this really annoyed me- AIBU?

OP posts:
MrsCampbellBlack · 31/05/2015 07:20

Yes, you've been very gracious OP!

If he was in a noisy bar he probably didn't even hear his phone and time does disappear when you've had a few drinks.

Whatamuckingfuddle · 31/05/2015 07:27

I can see your point, I would be happy for DH to do it but when I was pregnant I worried excessively that he was ok and felt he should send the odd text update, but I wouldn't be angry.

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