Or was this man really rude?

[DextersMistress]

I'm at dm's with dc. DM had a man come to cut the grass and dc were on the step watching him. When he finished, he had a little chat with them (and DM)
He asked their age and remarked that ds2 is big for his age (true)
DM said yes, and they're like chalk and cheese aren't they (also true)
He said what? They're brothers?
DM laughed and said yes.
what, like proper brothers or is one the milkman's?

DM seems to think it wasn't rude and just an observation. I think it's a horrible comment. Aibu?

but what about what happened to me?
before I got married, I had two children already, and the hair dresser, snooty so and so, asked if he was the father

Mo fo-Nice to see you, you've been hiding!

chocolate I read your post that the hairdresser is the father! Tell me that isn't so!

Have you reported him to the Police yet?
i think it us disgusting.

The police. I'll assume you're joking. You can't possibly be serious

no Miranda!

she was asking if the man i was marrying was the father, just to clarify.

Blimey there a lot of people being offended on mn today.
When I was at the dr's a few months ago I explained to him that I might be tired because I have 6 dc. He looked shocked and then asked me if they all have the same father.
I thought it was really funny. I was trying to work out if I would be less tired or more tired if I had more than one useless ex to deal with
Life's too short you get constantly offended by everything

YABU, it was a joke

Get a grip

This thread's nearly 7 years old @FrangiePan