Am I being a piss taker

[sharonthewaspandthewineywall]

I've been laid low with hyperemesis the past three weeks. DH wanted to go to play golf sat I asked if he'd reconsider because of how ill I've felt. He's now having a paddy saying I'm a piss taker because I'm taking our kid out to a tearoom saying oh it's okay when you decide you want to go out despite the fact a I'm taking the kids out and b I still feel like shit

How many holes was it OP, would it have been a whole day out, or just a couple of hours? I can understand you feeling nervous if it's a whole day on your own so I'd probably go to my mum's.

He's the piss-taker and he's shouting it from the roof-tops that his poxy game of golf is more important to him than spending time being with his own kids when his wife is feeling like shit. Just because you don't feel like complete shit today does not mean you were malingering on Saturday, a whole 48 hours later.

This man is a selfish and unreasonable prick.

You shouldn't have had to ask he should have offered

Awful, yes probaby but in 12 years he has been I'll twice, with manflu. If he asked me to stay I would of course but we just don't work like that. Maybe because he has worked away/nights since we met, so we have to be quite independent of each other.

So rude you'd ask someone else other than your dp to help you if he had plans? So helping you would be someone elses responsibility and not your dp

OP l had morning sickness (mildly it appears!) for about 7 weeks this pregnancy and some days l felt worse than others so l don't think you're taking the piss. It would be nice if your dh was just glad you were feeling well enough to leave the house, and take your dc!