this is YOUR choice, not the Governments choice. You CHOOSE to live where you do with your children. It's simple, move house. Then perhaps you would not need to claim benefits
where would the cost of moving come from? house in negative equity? stamp duty? solicitor's fees? search fees?
I have family support where I live now. Family support means I go to work everyday, regardless of whether or not my children are sick. This means I keep my job. If I move away from family, what will happen to my job on days when my children are sick? are you happy for your child to be taught by a teacher who is off a day here, a day there on a regular basis? or is it tough, I'm a single parent, I shouldn't be allowed to work in a responsible job?
And then there's the ex. Aside from the legal action he would be allowed to take to try and stop me moving (which could delay a move for months - which would mean the loss of any job I had lined up), why should the children be removed from living near one of their parents? what would the impact of that be on them?
What guarentee is there that I will get a job in this new, cheaper area? Work is harder to come by in areas that are less expensive to live in.
Ah yes, single parents claim benefits. Everyone else claims tax credits.