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to think that it's unacceptable to frighten someone's DC even if you think they're a nasty bigot?

295 replies

OTheHugeManatee · 23/03/2015 12:20

I just saw this story about protesters forcing Nigel Farage and his family out of a pub where they were having lunch.

I don't really like Farage's politics. But I support his democratic right to hold those views. AIBU to think hounding him and frightening his DC during a family lunch is unacceptable, illiberal and frankly nasty, whatever you think of the things he says?

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StillStayingClassySanDiego · 23/03/2015 21:47

How did they all know where he was?

BitchTradeMark · 23/03/2015 21:47

I simply can't get past how stunned I am that that article stated he and his wife drove off leaving his 2 youngest hiding in a pub. Regardless of who he is and what he does - who the fuck does that?!

I do hope the children weren't there Confused as the complete lack of thought for their safety is astounding.

Pyjamasandwine · 23/03/2015 21:48

Mob rule and bullies are vile from
Any political persuasion.

They have just given Farrage more support by these stupid actions.

However am guessing twats like this don't vote.

Pyjamasandwine · 23/03/2015 21:51

I imagine he did what he felt was the safest for his children. Can imagine he would see drawing them to him and away from his children was a sensible action. The pub staff probably know the family well and offered to get the children home.

No idea if that happened but that's what I would do in those circumstances.

OrlandoWoolf · 23/03/2015 21:52

It doesn't matter if his kids were there or not. If I'd been in the pub and then "that diversity party" came in and interrupted my meal (just because Farage was there) I would be really pissed off.

The organiser was interviewed today. He didn't even acknowledge the effect on people enjoying their lunch and said it was a peaceful festival.

I have no time for Farage but I also have no time for people who think it's acceptable to behave like that - regardless of his policies.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-32020557

Pyjamasandwine · 23/03/2015 21:52

bitch he would have been stupid to drag his kids outside to the car with that mob there.

BitchTradeMark · 23/03/2015 21:57

But it looks like they didn't pyjamas, the article states a family member went back to the pub and 'found' them. I dunno, but if their DC were that scared, surely leaving them behind made them feel even worse?

It just seems odd to be so raging about how frightened your children were, then admit you left them behind! If they were safe and removed before anything kicked off then fine but that's not how the article is worded.

BitchTradeMark · 23/03/2015 21:58

By the way, I don't agree with what the protesters did.

Branleuse · 23/03/2015 22:00

I thought it was pretty funny

Dawndonnaagain · 23/03/2015 22:56

I am not saying anyone was right or wrong. I am saying we do not appear to have the full story.

OrlandoWoolf · 23/03/2015 23:00

dawndonna

Is it acceptable for people to enter a pub and "hold a celebration of diversity" when people are enjoying their Sunday lunch?

SinisterBuggyMonth · 23/03/2015 23:10

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OrlandoWoolf · 23/03/2015 23:13

Free speech is great.

But interrupting people's dinner (and I mean everyone in the pub) to exercise that right is not a great use of that right.

Andro · 23/03/2015 23:24

If any part of the distress/hiding/family meal interruption/bonnet climbing is accurate, then the behaviour was disgraceful.

Good natured throughout? Climbing on the bonnet of a person's car to inhibit their departure is not good natured...it's dangerous and aggressive!

Quiero · 23/03/2015 23:30

They didn't just turn up, it had been widely advertised and publicised. Farage knew they were there and from what I've read, hs children weren't there.

OrlandoWoolf · 23/03/2015 23:33

So what.

I am enjoying Sunday lunch. The pub gets taken over by diversity protestors. Were there other children there? How did they feel?

I would have been really pissed off.

Pyjamasandwine · 23/03/2015 23:54

I got to say though the thought of Nigel being pursued by breast feeding mothers and assorted nut jobs did make me think
Of Benny hill.

ginghamcricketbox · 24/03/2015 01:02

Well PCS national exec members and Guardian writers obviously think it's not a problem

LumpySpacedPrincess · 24/03/2015 07:51

It's all a bit fishy, the protesters say the kids were not there at all. Why would you drive off and leave your children behind?

hackmum · 24/03/2015 07:54

And here's the real story of what happened:

www.theguardian.com/stage/2015/mar/23/beyond-ukip-cabaret-nigel-farage

Farage is just very very good at getting his version into the press first.

Arsenic · 24/03/2015 08:01

It certainly makes all the 'Je suis Charlie' memes ring a bit hollow.

I think this might be the first time I have ever disagreed with DawnDonna about anything. I need Cake for the Shock Grin

SaucyJack · 24/03/2015 08:08

What's it got to do with "Je Suis Charlie"? Confused

Arsenic · 24/03/2015 08:12

Freedom of speech?

The right to hold opinions (even ones that many of us finf abhorrent) without unfair and inappropriate harrassment and menace?

Arsenic · 24/03/2015 08:15

What I mean Saucy, is that if we start saying "well his opinions, his platform are so unpleasant, that it justifies x, y and z tactic which would normally be beyond the pale", then we've lost something from our traditions of democracy, free speech etc.

There is a political process and there are appropriate ways to protest. They've done themselves no credit at all by stepping outside of that.

SaucyJack · 24/03/2015 08:21

Urgh. He was chased around by a bloke dressed up as gay donkey- not machine gunned to death.

Some of the language used on this thread is verging on hysteria.