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To wonder why EatShitDerek aka FuckitBucket has been banned?

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Arsenic · 22/03/2015 23:27

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Arsenic · 23/03/2015 00:11

I mean, shouldn't be having to guess.

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LostTeacher · 23/03/2015 00:11

I've read your post already.

As I said, I'm not a regular or anything, but I do often lurk.

I still haven't changed my mind.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 23/03/2015 00:12

Yeah, I'm a bit confused about the connection to Derek and Stranded. No idea where that came from.

JoanHicksonMIfive · 23/03/2015 00:13

Ah I can't imagine what she did wrong.

LostTeacher · 23/03/2015 00:13

Look, I'm no expert.

It's just my honest opinion.

I haven't a clue why she's been banned and I haven't read any threads today with her on.

But to me, she always stood out for some reason that I couldn't quite put my finger on.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 23/03/2015 00:14

What makes you think that Lost? Not being funny or anything, am genuinely curious.

CheerfulYank · 23/03/2015 00:14

Derek and Stranded are definitely not the same!

MangoJuggler · 23/03/2015 00:14

See, LostTeacher, trollhunting is a bannable offence.

Jus' sayin'.

Arsenic · 23/03/2015 00:14

You haven't changed your mind about what? Confused

She doesn't make stuff up. Her life offboard is as she portrays it. Back the fuck off.

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LostTeacher · 23/03/2015 00:14

I think the connection came from their very similar posting style.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 23/03/2015 00:15

I'd imagine quite a few posters have similar writing styles...

Northernlurker · 23/03/2015 00:16

Well look - if you've nothing to go on other than a feeling and you haven't interacted with her which you aven't if you mostly lurk then do you think it entirely responsible and kind indeed to be asserting that a) she's a liar and b) she's a previously banned poster?

Because I think that's some pretty nasty stuff that one should be bloody sure of before one starts chucking it around a thread.

Arsenic · 23/03/2015 00:16

You sound like a bully Lost

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LostTeacher · 23/03/2015 00:16

I don't mind if anyone bans me. I'm not troll hunting - which is why I've never commented on this before.

But as people are speculating about why she was banned, I thought I'd give my opinion.

I can see that some of you apparently know her in real life. In that case I must be wrong then.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 23/03/2015 00:16

Also don't recall similarities between those two. But as Stranded's posts have all gone, we can't check...

I doubt very much they're the same person though. In fact I'm sure of it.

WorraLiberty · 23/03/2015 00:16

The reason she's always stood out to me (and it's very rarely anyone does cos I don't normally take notice of names), is because she's so refreshingly honest.

She doesn't put on any airs and graces and just tells it like it is.

I like that in a poster.

ilovesooty · 23/03/2015 00:17

Having been in contact with her off board helping with her job search and since she lives not far from me I'm utterly convinced she's who she says she is.

Arsenic those deletions were ages ago anyway. I agree she shouldn't be having to wonder why she can't sign in.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 23/03/2015 00:17

trollhunting is a bannable offence.

LostTeacher · 23/03/2015 00:19

I'm not asserting anything.

You can't start a thread asking why someone has been banned- a thread inviting discussion on the topic- and then complain about possible explanations.

We are all adults here; it's not like I've accused her of murder!

I've already said that I apologise if I'm wrong.

ilovesooty · 23/03/2015 00:20

The reason she's always stood out to me (and it's very rarely anyone does cos I don't normally take notice of names), is because she's so refreshingly honest

Absolutely. And as she's a young mum who gets much of her social interaction on here she's the sort of poster I thought Mumsnet actually takes pride in supporting...

Arsenic · 23/03/2015 00:21

Yes. Admirably, hilariously, almost recklessly honest. Vicarinatutu levels of tell-it-how-it-is honesty.

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Stratter5 · 23/03/2015 00:21

She's on my FB, she's 100% who she says she is.

Ridiculous that she's been banned.

Northernlurker · 23/03/2015 00:22

Of course we can complain when the possible explanation has a) been addressed already and you said you had read my post and b) is based on nothing more than your feelings and dubious linguistic analysis.

This place thrives on misinformation and rumour. You've just done your bit to tarnish a poster in the eyes of lots of people who only read or remember part of threads. It's not a Good thing to do. Why not apologise and back off please.

WorraLiberty · 23/03/2015 00:22

Exactly sooty so lets just hope it's an admin error and she'll be back tomorrow...sharing stories of hangovers and pizza 'n chips Grin

LostTeacher · 23/03/2015 00:22

Hopefully then some of you have reported my post so that maybe MNHQ can make an appearance (to delete my posts and tell me off) and maybe explain their reasons?

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