My 1st MD. DD 9 months. Lovely card & present sent home from fab childminder. Await card from DP on behalf of DD.....crack on with morning housework etc. Get ready to walk dogs, DP says not coming. I get bit upset as last thing I want to do is head out on my own with DD & be surrounded by happy families out walking.....DP turns on me, Well how is he supposed to go out & buy a card or anything if I wont piss out of house? Etc Etc. So now I've been made to feel like I'm in the wrong & am upset & feel my day I was so looking forward to is a bit ruined. AIBU? How was I to read his mind & know that was the plan? Am I BU to think he could have gone to shop of his way home from work yesterday? Feeling sad about the whole thing now & just ignoring messages from everyone asking me how I'm being spoilt etc. Just a card would have chuffed me to bits beyond belief, not after presents or breakfast in bed. Just a card :-(