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Should I ltb?

44 replies

Whatamuckingfuddle · 12/03/2015 23:02

Long time lurker, first time poster.
Have just been into the bathroom to chat with DP, he was brushing teeth, I left and got into bed to readmumsnet do some work, and he waddles through bedroom with his trousers halfway down. Apparently he had been planning on pissing in the sink until I walked in and he'd changed his mind in case I came back and caught him. Turns out its a regular thing and if he'd been bothered to pull his trousers back up over his arse I'd still be in the dark and washing my face in a pissy sink every night. I wouldn't mind but it's a tiny en suite, he only needed to turn around, not walk half a mile to the loo Sad

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SusanIvanova · 12/03/2015 23:04

I would. I don't know anyone that would judge you either. Envy

arethereanyleftatall · 12/03/2015 23:06

Why would he do that? Gross.

DamselNotInHerDress · 12/03/2015 23:09

Shock what a grim filthy pig.

TheCunnyFunt · 12/03/2015 23:11

That's disgusting! LTB indeed!

BlueBananas · 12/03/2015 23:11

Why??? Just so many whys??

lindsaybobs · 12/03/2015 23:11

Not to sound over dramatic but I would be appalled if my DP did that. I wouldn't be able to look at him in the same way again! Disgusting! ??

mrsfuzzy · 12/03/2015 23:13

sorry, but i wouldn't stay with someone so slobby, what else is he doing that you don't know about ? just gross.

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Whatamuckingfuddle · 12/03/2015 23:19

I'm pleased I'm not overreacting, its time to ban him from my bathroom

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rebelfor · 12/03/2015 23:20

What else does he get up to?! Confused

mrsfuzzy · 12/03/2015 23:23

have you spoken to him about it, if so what did he say ?

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Whatamuckingfuddle · 12/03/2015 23:23

That's exactly what I'm thinking , rebel

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LaurieFairyCake · 12/03/2015 23:30

I don't understand Confused

Are you saying he pees in the sink even if the toilet is free behind him?

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Whatamuckingfuddle · 12/03/2015 23:31

I asked him if he's done it before, he looked a bit sheepish then admitted 'sometimes', I told him he was disgusting and he buggered off downstairs to do some more work and I'm left here wondering if I should check he's not pissing in the kitchen sink. Urgh. The wierd part is hes otherwise very clean and someone I would've thought who'd be disgusted by the thought of pissing in sinks... Shock

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Whatamuckingfuddle · 12/03/2015 23:33

Yes, he was alone in the bathroom, the toilet was there and free

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LaurieFairyCake · 12/03/2015 23:35

So he finds it easier to pee in the sink ?

He doesn't have a good aim or something?

I think the only thing that would bother me is that he's very unlikely to clean it properly afterwards - however urine is almost sterile so it won't be harmful.

It's just a bit lazy and yuk Shock

RandomNPC · 12/03/2015 23:37

As long as he moves the dishes to one side, it's ok to pee in the sink

RedSoloCup · 12/03/2015 23:39

Very weird!!!

mrsfuzzy · 12/03/2015 23:44

would not sit right with me at all !

YellowTulips · 12/03/2015 23:48

Yuk....

Why piss in a sink when the loo is right by you?

Sorry sounds like some weird pervy shit there.

I'd be hiding my toothbrush (until I LTB).

BastardGoDarkly · 12/03/2015 23:53

Is he doing it while brushing his teeth?! Why doesn't he piss in the toilet, and brush his teeth? It's very very odd.

But I wouldn't ltb over it no, just make it clear it's weird and gross and has to stop.

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Whatamuckingfuddle · 12/03/2015 23:54

No dishes - we had a takeaway tonight. I'm more shocked that he would do this, he's just not the type (not sure what I imagine the type is). Well, maybe I'll speak to him tomorrow about why we don't pee in sinks, I'm mostly concerned he is highly unlikely to have cleaned the sink afterwards. Just when you think you know someone and then you find out they've been piddling in the sinks....

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RandomNPC · 12/03/2015 23:59

If by LTB you mean 'lick the basin', then no. He's weed in it.

MkDaddy · 13/03/2015 00:03

I'm a man and I find that disgusting. LEAVE THE BASTARD and get yourself a gentleman who won't give you dissentary while washing your face!!!

RandomNPC · 13/03/2015 00:04

You won't get dysentery unless he's been pooing in it too

YellowTulips · 13/03/2015 00:05

PMSL at random Grin